The problem may be that your sex drive isn't at it's peak when you get aroused with her, so going without porn would be a good choice for you but remember that just because you are off porn doesn't mean you can jack off all day. I wish all the best with you and your partner. I'm sure that you can achieve over 110% if you stay true to your purpose which is staying away from porn and putting your focus onto greater things you wish to achieve, or simple day to day things you want to get done. It's sad to hear that you can't ejaculate with her, but I'm sure it isn't as a big as a problem as you think. (Unless you want kids that is). On the otherhand, I do relate to the frustration of not being able to climax over your partner. Just wanna let the beast unleash but it's still sleeping in the cave haha! So yes, go without porn. Although, personally I would recommend going through the whole free-of-PMO thig but we're all different and we all start in different places. I hope you're doing okay this evening friend! Studying medicine ay? I respect that. All I know is that it is very difficult so I also wish the very best in your studies, along with your partners studies!
AYYY SOMEONE MY AGE, FINALLY! Yup we're in definitely in the same boat, lot of sharks encircling us too! I hope you're doing well on your fourth day of no PMO. Welcome to the thread too! Keep it up, you're on the path of greatness and your next stop is mastering discipline!
DAY 7 OF THE NO FAPU PMO CONQUERUU QUESTUU! One week has been achieved! Week 1/52 unlocked! Firstly, I'd like to say a big massive congratulations to those that have stuck to their guns and kept up with the challenge despite all the many temptations you have faced. It takes a big man (not necessarily a tall one) to do what you did! (minor DBZ Abridged reference to my DBZ fans out there!). We are now one full week into the year, one full week into the challenge, one full week into freedom from lust and conquering our inner demons of sexual depravity. I honour any man that has come through with a strong will, taking each day at a time with slow progress and a sturdy mindset. Pat yourself on the back! We have lost many soldiers in the first week of this challenge, it saddens me to say that so many of us succumbed to the succubus that is porn and masturbation. Orgasming isn't that much of an issue, only if you do it by yourself. Find a girl to bust a nut into if you have to (Although I don't condone this if you're under the age of 18. SORRY MINORS!). We have lost a lot of brave warriors, but as soldiers that have survived the first week of this war we must carry the will of these fallen and push on to everlasting glory! We will be a beacon of light to those who have lost their way into darkness, do not be comforted by THOTS, be comforted by the MAN that lives inside you. Your mind can break anything, but it can also break itself. Don't beat yourself up if you have relapsed, you are wasting time doing that. We are all human, we make mistakes. we all relapse. I am no perfect being, I have relapsed many times and who knows what will happen this year! Maybe I'll slip into darkness again and relapse. THAT IS NOT THE PLAN! Think less of relapsing, think less of masturbation, think more of using your time productively. There are people in this thread that have hobbies that can make them money. Music making, games designing, drawing, studying medicine and etc. Pursue that goal, NoFap is just a tool to help you achieve just that; your life goals. Now we slowly move onto the next day, as our sexual energy grows ever so stronger, our willpower to resist the urges will correlate in that same growth! WE. CAN. DO. THIS. - Young Piccolo Thread Starter
2 days... I like your conversations so much. It keeps me positive. I think, that I can do it with you guys.
In the way for a full day without porn, 2h left. I just need to work, or read if I don't work... Worst I'll play but I'll don't fall again
Arrgh fail again... But I think I'm in the way to find a counter-routine porn, I'll see if it work in the rest of the week.
DAY 8 OF THE NoFap 2019 CHALLENGE! A NEW WEEK BEGINS! I'm not gonna lie, I damn near slipped up. I DAMN NEAR RELAPSED. The urges were very strong today, but I still did not NUT. I will not let the NUT control me, I will control the NUT! I hope you all are doing very well today. May your heart be your guiding key! (KINGDOM HEARTS). Everyone here is strong, continue to be strong! And for any future urges, BRING IT ON! I'M READY! WE'RE READY!
Update: Just had a cold shower to punish myself. I'm back in university now so I'll be looking for new things to do untop of slaving away at my coursework. I think I'll try kickboxing, I love being active and playing basketball alongside kickboxing will do me well!
That's a bad option for the long terme the "punishment". You should just take a cold shower in last option to get down your NUT (as you say). Please, resist, remember why and just be patient why yourself, it will pass, the damn urge are a bad period -a guy that have fail today-
I wouldnt look at the shower as punishment; just look at it as a way to get back to ur senses, punishments didn't work with me, just kinda put me in a bad mood (closer to realpsing). also DONT LET THE MF URGES SNEAK UP ON YAH keep ya guard up.... thats about all i gotta say now