Hi guys I would like to ask a simple question. Imagine you fapping/porning for 20 years. And because you see loads of pornstars and porn itself you are attracted to high-end very attractive women. If you do long enough nofap and not using porn, can that make you be attracted to less physically attractive women that you never been attracted before? Will your brain rewire in this aspect? I would be really interested what is your experience here. I am only attracted to very attractive looking girls and it makes my life ridiculously complicated. I want to get rid of it. Thanks
Pretty much yes, You've tricked your brain into thinking it has sex with about 100 really hot girls in one session, when this illusion has dissipated, your will automatically become more attracted to less attractive woman, or to me, it's more that I see more beauty in them in the first place, and in other things too. This is a gradual process though, the harder you go on the reboot the faster it will be this way though!
My mind is changing it’s priority to seeing more of the woman’s inner character than her physical beauty. I’m still very much attracted to the outside but more n more the inside is becoming the main thing I focus on.
Attracted to less attractive woman after nofap ? Well speeking for myself it was the other way around I was attracted to less attractive women BEFORE nofap
LOL, I find everyone good looking and I do not see people for their differences. I think I have explained this in another post. lmao. I am not addicted to dating and being interested in women in real life but to porn. lol. Women are always boyish attitudes and they always hang out with guys in groups But I do not really care much about poop and pee per se, lmao. haha. I just focus on my main problems per se.
That's a deep post to think about I meant physically attractive..of course, everybody has different taste. We all know that a woman with great values and great personality is more attractive generally for healthy guys, but you know what I mean
While I didn't find women I found completely unattractive attractive to be during NoFap, I did find myself more attracted to what I consider to be attractive women and women I used to consider to be more in the "meh" area, if that makes any sense.
I noticed a huge shift in attraction around day 40 Attractive girls became more attractive I had a streak of 7 - 30 days before i can get 40+ days and i noticed the girl i have been talking in class looked more attractive for some reason after a 10 secs of seeing each other I reakon porn can desensitise you, made me delusional thats for sure thinking i can get in with girls you see in porn Not saying its impossible tho...
I already had a girlfriend that was even much more attractive than all the girls I saw in porn ...now I am addicted to her even I am not with her already 2 years (fantasies are killing me). I want to get rid of that addiction and I want to be attracted to physically less attractive women ...
The short answer is "yes". The longer answer is complicated though. The thing with porn is not that those women are all "high-end" attractive or whatever, in fact, there are a bunch of women in porn that are ugly by quite a bunch of standards. I'd rather say it's that "novelty" thing that makes you overlook the beauty of "casual" women, because porn has you entertained with a different woman in different positions each time. The reality is different though. You are not going to see as many women naked in real life as you can see in porn. So get off porn and learn to see beauty again.
for sure, me too I find NoFap for a few days and I find beauty in all women...or maybe I should say I find something sexy in every woman