I've had a really down day of down couple of days I'm good now we got 25 out of 28 I am motivated I'm back let's inspire to not be desired that's had a hands-off approach to everything that we do with our private parts except for going to the bathroom lol God decides when you're right and your significant other even if you don't have one eventually they'll decide to God bless each and everyone of you you have brought me back please Keep On tracking let's have a full check in today that would be 25 out of 28 if we can get all if we can get 20 I will add up all the days of everybody and I will give it a cumulative total of everybody's days to show our group effort in hardmode pmo congratulations gentlemen we will spearhead the war against pmo do not stop yourself relapsing is not an option it is a choice your brain is run by your mind which controls your brain and your hand God loves us all by Design
Thank you. In China, being addicted to pornography and masturbation is considered to bring bad luck. “Lewdness is the worst of all sins.”-A Chinese proverb
50 days I was very upset today, probably because I didn't sleep well last night. Today, my brain has a lot of pornographic ideas. I want to hug my wife, want to kiss her, want to make love with her. When I asked her for a hug, my wife turned me down. Because she and I knew that after hugging, I would ask for kissing and making love. It won't stop. Thank God, I didn't have a relapse Bless you all
Day 1 I guess I don't feel a strong urge yet cuz I'm just beginning lol but I'm trying to keep myself distracted by reading books anyone ever read "what everybody is saying" by Joe Navarro?
A few things i can add to this idea Fox; 1, I think the power to relentlessly deliver on our intentions has to be learnt and practised. A bit like training a muscle or training to get fit. We may have good intentions to achieve a goal but when discomfort arrives (inevitably), if we have no previous exposure or training in discomfort then it is much more challenging. We have to train ourselves to experience and be comfortable with feelings of discomfort. 2, We have to learn to be honest and never lie to ourselves. When we relapse we must iterate and adjust so not to fall into the same trap and fail the same way again. Figure out why the relapse and make changes, maybe train ourselves in discomfort to strengthen the pain threshold (1, above). This is being honest with ourselves - simply saying 'i'll do it this time' is not, and will probably lead to the same outcome. 3, Want it - really want it. If we want it bad enough - we'll find a way to deliver it to ourselves. I was really hoping that this was just a blip - a temporary down period. You've been such an inspiration to so many, setting up this challenge, supporting, pushing and encouraging success from all participants whilst leading from the front with a remarkable and impressive streak. Cool, so glad to see that you are back on track. Lets keep going and become truly phenomenal men!..
I want to say thank you so much yesterday was so hard as were the last couple days prior. Knowing that I signed an abstinence contract and I'm honoring that it's something that I have always done be honest , and being honorable. I'm pushing through a massive depression I'm going through. I know I'm going to make it and your proclomations make me want to stand tall. Sometimes I'm not so sure if I'm inspirational and now I know and that. This is now a new motivational energy to keep me going and I hope to keep others going. This journey is so awesome I'm just waiting to get the highs back and stay there there are a lot of highs guys btw and those are where you got to try to remember when your down and thinking of relapsing. You're going to go back to your high when you're down like I was. And yes it's so uncomfortable sometimes that's a good way to look at it give your discomfort a nice big hug because it will be comfortable again in short order today is a Banner Day it is day 120 for me, I have a journal and its named a 120 plus a journal it appears I need to go further on and with helping inspiration like that you just made it easier buddy God bless you and bless everyone here we're all going to do this we're all going to look in the rearview mirror of life one day and laugh at this and come out 10 times stronger!!!!!
100 and 20 days today Blown Away the above aforementioned quote I got to tell you it made me cry to know that I and making a difference is empowering today God showed me that he is a kind God he's a good God he does things that are good for you thank you all and let's continue our journey.
Thelosians 4:3-4 3It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, News from gods word day 120
have not checked in, in a few days. 3 days ago both my girlfriend and I were extremely vulnerable and we fell to the temptation. I could make 100 excuses on why it happened but it did. We both talked and are really going to give NoFap a chance to change our lives. We are going to resign the abstinence contract and I plan on using the tools that I have at my disposal to deal with the temptation!!
That is your one time failure of self control, then your challenge and our personal connection will be over, god knows sees feels everything know that.