2/30 Relapsed a couple of days ago but I’m not discouraged. Just want to encourage everything in this thread to not give up. Failure is apart of recovery.
Huh, 3/30 and I'm having a lot of temptations... I hope to stay strong and manage to control my minds. Keep fighting brothers and sisters!
SIX DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Soon to be a week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
21/30. I've started having some urges related to my fetishes. It makes it difficult with my boyfriend...I don't know what to do. When we have sex, I constantly have thoughts of my weird fetishes/fantasies. On the other hand, I've been very good with porn and masturbation.
Day 25 Most definitely not. If you wish it so, you can, but I'm sure no one here on NoFap will consider a wet dream a relapse. It's a natural phenomenon that has to do with bodily functions and can (and does) happen to people who masturbate rarely or never. Actually the logic is they would occur more in such cases because no willful release is being done. A wet dream is messy, but a much better option than PMO! You must fight the temptation within as well as without. Meaning even after you stopped physically engaging in PMO your brain chemistry still fires the same way, especially in similar situations such as sexual encounters. Try to see that you are not those fantasies and fetishes, they have literally been implanted in you by watching and abusing pornographic material. These are not 'your fetishes', they're just fetishes. For me everything definitely gets better once I stop doing PMO. Your brain, body and soul will slowly recover but time, patience and a strong will are all needed!