At this moment I am 40 days and going strong.. but even tho I am doing well and happy with my progress. I am still this exact way.. .. Thank you for writing this. I need to know that I can recover and find this kind of connection and love in my life again..
Keep pushing through man, that connection is completely possible. I used to have certain issues that I dealt with a therapist in order to solve them. sometimes there are thing that happened to us that hold us back. And it's very important to get out of that loop in order to keep going forward. Porn usually puts us again into that loop again and again. Its troublesome and difficult to get out of there alone. so if you need to, get professional help! sharing all this issue with someone else makes it a lighter load to carry. When you finally get out of there, you'll feel better than ever! Wish you the best man!
Bro, porn will cause those twisted fantasies so stop it at once! It may be normal to have sexual thoughts but porn will make you objectify women so like I said, stop it!
Fantastic, fantastic, fantastic, again! Thanks so much for this. I want what you describe, it is so motivating. Felt like I wanted to quote you on every sentence, but that would be sort of a cumbersome thing to do. Cheers!
Hey man! Thanks! Nofap changed my life for the better 100% I really believe it will do the same for you!
Hi man, I’m glad you enjoyed it! Well, at the time I was struggling with different problems, specially related to my commitment both to my work and my girlfriend. I started simply watching some porn without masturbating, but that doesn't last long. I ended up PMOing after some days of ‘just watching’ porn. Luckily I didn’t feel devastated, simply because I understood where the struggle was coming from. Porn is just a symptom of something wrong going on deep within us. A coping mechanism to deal with things we are struggling with. After the relapse I could see more clearly the things that I was doing wrong and I planned ahead to change them. Therapy also helped a lot. I’m starting to truly understand that the fight is not against porn, but against the things that are not properly resolved within us. Porn is an unfortunate symptom that presents itself when these struggles become more evident. Its easier to blame porn, than to blame ourselves in times of struggle. Anyways! I’m still fighting the fight and enthusiastic about my future! How are you doing??
This is a fantastic post! Your story telling and grammar is fantastic as well. I will keep this open as a tab and refer back to it for inspiration. I am realising how much on an addiction I have to PMO and am having a tough time combatting it at the moment. I'm beginning to realise that it's the cause of so many problems in my life. I hope that one day o have a story like yours to share.
You're on a great day-count! Congrats on reaching 60 days! I'm glad this post helped you out somehow!
The way you wrote each sentence it felt connected and just flowed very pleasantly and fluently. Think you should be a writer or something man. I always say that it's not about the days, it's the attitude towards life that we acquire from this that's what matters and I know most of the people agree on this and you certainly have that attitude now. Wonderful job on the streak though, I was just like you when I reached my 90 days . Stay vigilant buddy don't let anything distract you from this beautiful life. Just keep on moving day by day, you will eventually reach the top.
Thanks man really appreciated! I'm glad you could connect with the post that was my main goal, for people to feel identified and feel inspired to keep on fighting. Had a relapse myself some days ago, but i'm still here to fight the fight! good luck wish you the best!
A Awesome story man I feel like I reading my own story... Really inspiring... I bookmark this...and congratulations for 90 days NoFap...