Yeah it’s horrible, especially when you don’t know what’s going on. I can only attribute mine to either PSSD or PIED. 18 days gone and still no improvement! Have you seen any improvements yet yourself?
Dude that’s how I ended up every single point. had a little bit of morning wood and some spontaneous errctions but they have now disappeared again. The only thing I’m getting is head pressure.
- Gay urges are gone. - Porn urges are gone. - More confident, less mood swings, less anxiety. - Weird fetishes are gone. - Weird dreams where I watch porn are gone. - Have semi-hard morning wood every morning. Last couple of days got semi-hards followed by very strong erections. - Had semi-hard 2 times fooling around with girl. I am ONLY 90 days in hard mode, and I have so little improvement. I stopped watching porn last June. It's stupid to expect improvements in 18 days. I was in the same boat as you, doubting that this will help, and doubting that my problem is porn. Only when I started hard mode, I started understanding that both masturbation and porn are big issues. 90 days is nothing, we are watching porn for years, and than expect fast results. It can take up to a year to fully reboot.
Is it considered a relapse if a girl send me a nude snapchat? He’s asked me to meet her in a few days for you know! And sent me a few nudes! I did look but didn’t stare, keep them or fap! So is it still considered a relapse?
Of course no. If I counted a relapse every time I've seen a naked body on the screen, or even in real life, then I relapsed countless time. The problem is not seeing naked body, the problem is being aroused to porn, and masturbating to that.
Don’t get me wrong, I was aroused by it, just made sure I did nothing with it regarding fapping. Been managing to get stronger erections the last few days so hoping it’s not going to hinder progress.
Even if you are aroused, so what? You are safe as long as you don’t act. I never put any porn or even ads blocker on my computer. I never had any desire to watch porn, and I’ve seen a lot of naked bodies both on the internet and in real life. I am in a flatline, so that may help, but I also don’t really think that nudes of a woman is a problem. If you have PIED, it’s the porn that is the problem. Being aroused to view of a naked women’s body is healthy, being aroused to 2 other people having sex is not. That’s just my 2 cents.