How do you deal with feelings of inadequacy in public? How do you control yourself around people you want to be with instantly? I do not objectify people but how do you stop yourself from "the gaze"? Maybe I am not ready to stand up on my own two feet and be a confident individual just yet. Sigh, how long does it take into your reboot to do this?
GO to the gym. And stare as hot girls as often as you can. This is what healthy man means. What exactly is causing you feeling of inadequacy in public ?