Thanks man. I came on here because I was like you...latching onto success stories for motivation. This is tough. The TOUGHEST thing in your life. At least for me it was, and I’ve been through a lot. Something so fun and natural as sex, all of a sudden nothing works. While a hot girl is looking at you while all this is happening. Scary! You’ll be fine. Stay on track (no PMO), take care of your body. The rest will sort itself out. The body is good at sorting things out.
Consider it body training. I thought of the Rocky movies, training for a big fight. There was the part in Rocky IV when Apollo’s trainer told Rocky “You’re gonna have to go through hell. That which you’ve never dreamed. But I know...that you’ll be the one standing.” Trust your body. Keep going. You’re doing great. Later on, the chaser effect will disappear. Then it will get easier.
**Might Contain Triggers for Some** Does a lot of precum count as relapse? I couldn't control myself last night and had lot of foreplay with the Missus although avoided intercourse or oral sex. Didn't touch the penis but there was lot of precum. Does it count as relapse? I dunno why but I have been feeling kinda guilty today
Lol not at all. Besides, you can have precum w/o foreplay, like sleeping. No need to feel guilty, there’s no relapse there.
Do you feel a bit weak after precum as if you had just masturbated? I think that feeling has been giving me a lot of guilt
Hmm. If you edge a lot (which may or may not result in precum) then yes you can get tired from all the blood flow away from your brain and into your penis. That’s not the same as releasing (relapsing). And this happened when you were not looking at porn so you’re fine. It’s best to have your brain forget about porn and only know real people. You do this with time. Our brains love repetition.
Were you in love with this women before? I think it's highly interesting you got back together with an old flame and your ED was "cured"
Yup! Interesting right? For me the ED w/the other chick was mental with some degree of PIED. I can’t get erections of the same quality with every girl. Depending on the vibes I get from her, I may or may not perform well. The chick was very different from me as a person...I just didn’t get good vibes. My gf and I are on the same page on most things so I perform better. It’s interesting but that’s just me.
Thanks guys! NoFap is real. There are real, tangible results. You may be down, but not out. Your sexual virility WILL come back.
Thanks for such an inspirational story you got here. It really give me the motivation that NOFAP has really huge benefits. I am now at 39days. Suffered from PIED. Brain fog... deMotivated in work.. etc Just realized it when I found NOFAP. Now the brain fog has really gone down.. Work is feeling great again.. and the morning wood is really strong now... haha.. Thank you again for sharing your story..