Hi all. I have a friend who keeps sending me these lame "how to pick up women" videos. They are shitty and lame and I'm sick of them, but I don't want to offend him 'cause I know he likes them. Should I: a) Tell him to fuck them off, and risk offending him, or, b) Just "grin and bear it"? Thank you for your valuable opinions.
I would not grin and bear it, if he's actually your true friend he'll understand. Tell him you're not interested in those videos and would appreciate it if he didn't send them anymore. If he still kept at it, I'd personally tell the bugger to sod off and stop annoying me.
I agree with Sarah. Tell him to knock it off. If he gets offended, maybe you two just aren't on the same level. You may be more mature than he is. I don't know your age, but I know people twice my age that are like little kids. I'm not telling you to find new friends... But it could help to expand your friend base.
Lol, I'd go with the first if I had to pick, but that's not my style. Just say you got better game than those amateurs. Then tell him about Nofap superpowers. He's gonna be like .
Saw your post and had to throw this in. My advice to you born is to tell your friend those videos aren't your thing. If he's a good friend he'll stop sending them. If the ones he's sending are anything like the ones I saw they want your money. Your better off spending your time here on the forums.
Wow, thanks everyone--I didn't expect such a wealth of advice. The videos really piss me off but he doesn't realise that, he thinks they're valuable to his "game" when he keeps getting rejected and stomped on by "the modern woman." Only, you realise, because his 'pick-up' advice has misled him to treat women like pawns or checkers in a game... kinda sad, really. I'll let him know, then. Thanks again guys.
That does sound pretty sad, I can't imagine being like that. I'd rather be a introverted hermit than treat another woman like that. Good on you for being honest with him. I'm not going to lie, I have watched videos like that but I have never really taken them seriously.
But for $59.99 you can learn the secret to make any woman beg to sleep with you. We'll even throw in these bonus e-books.
Ahahahah, nice quip. Yeah, I think he's a bit sad that I told him off so sternly, but too bad. Sometimes, as ol' boy Shakespeare said, you have to be cruel to be kind.
I'm not saying my mate's a "fuckboy" but he definitely thinks that his best bet in picking up women is at the nightclub. Personally, I disagree. I've found that the best place to meet them is at work. Had a few bad experiences with girls who were too young for me, as well as some sinfully good ones (e.g. fucking a married woman on New Year's Eve 2012-13), so yeah, I keep on rollin'...