What we Miss

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Praying, Apr 18, 2024.

  1. Praying

    Praying New Fapstronaut

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    What do we miss if we go back?

    Sometimes finances.

    Sometimes relationships are harder.

    Sometimes anxiety or fear crop up.

    Sometimes emotional problems. You need to constantly remind yourself which problems your habit is causing you.

    Contentment and self-control don't exist.

    Sometimes you may have less friends. P sooner or later causes darkness, and depression.

    You will miss part or all of the joy God has for you.

    I practiced good self-control yesterday. It made me friendlier around people and a lot more fun.
     
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  2. oceanicintimacy

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  3. Praying

    Praying New Fapstronaut

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    Porn addiction often causes something to partially dies, or begin to die. This habit sometimes kills love, joy, peace, and purpose. Fill out from 1 to 10 (With 10 being best), your level in each category.

    Peace ___

    Love ___

    Filled-with-the-spirit ___

    Hope ___

    Do you feel filled with Light? ___

    Blessing ___

    Strength ___

    Joy ___

    Purpose ___


    I found the above chart online, and it allows me to see what my habit can kill.

    Second, if you think more about how you will increase in each (Or some) of these categories, you will think less about ____.

    Third, this sheet will remind you “Why” you are low in some/many of these categories. You will stay low as long as you pick short-term, wrongful pleasure over God's ways.

    Fourth, “lust kills a lot of things on this chart.”

    Fifth, timcia from the Christian group had this example in the article: “Love, a 2 rating, weakened by lust. Blessing, a 1 rating, ruined by lust. Joy, a 1 rating, ruined by lust.

    Then they show me a new printout of what happened after they studied these categories for one month. Peace, a 5 rating, love, a 6 rating, blessing, a 7 rating, joy, an 8 rating.

    Today, set your goals for each category. Consider reading your sheet and thinking about these goals often. When you don't ruin these things with lust... They grow stronger and stronger, and then life gets better and better.”

    A positive and good chart.