I created my own issues of whining about a life of no sex after deciding to get it off of my chest back when I was on Reddit. It had quickly developed into a nonstop "Woe is me. Feel sorry for me" spiel. And in turn, it pushes everyone away from me. The issue now is, I have no idea how to get out of it.
The times in which you suffer are good for building character. The more you suffer, the more you are growing in terms of patience. I know that life is painful at times, believe me. In the Bible, Jesus says that in order to follow Him, you have to take up your cross. Part of that is developing endurance. Each day on this earth is another opportunity to become more like Jesus. Don't despise that, mate.
