Greetings to my good old friends! It’s been 4-5 years since my last time here. I had PE problem since I remember my sexual life due to too much porn! I made this post 5 years ago, about my bad experience on PMO (200+ DAYS) https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/7-months-no-pmo-sad-story-no-success.107391/ I was completely devastated, I thought I would never enjoy sex like all the other men. I was 17-18 years old. I finally went to a doctor at 18 years old (5 years ago). I felt very uncomfortable for some reason to admit that I have PE BUT it saved my sexual life. He suggested me this 2% Xylocaine Gel that worked miracles. It will decrease your sensitivity for as much as it should and the most important thing that we lack, it will boost your confidence. You can finally FUCK and make a girl orgasm! Wow! I am now 2.5 years with my girlfriend and she never noticed I have premature ejaculation. The only problem here, is that it never vanished. Delaying condom will help (not the same as the gel), but if I do it without a condom, it’s again difficult but for sure not as in the beginning where I couldn’t last a minute. maybe I should try and use the gel less and less and train myself to be exposed again. I hope people will see this and gain back their confidence, because I remember myself back then and I really needed a success story of PE that I couldn’t find.
Man I have your exact same problem... I get erection super easy but then PE, I don't last a minute either. And I feel it's not something that it will vanish with reboot, because it feels like it's related to sensitivity, it's too much. I don't know if it's the skin sensitivity, or nerves inside, I don't have the slightest idea, but it is uncontrollable. I will have to try your miracle 2% Xylocaine Gel or consult it with a doctor, and if it works you will probably have saved my future sexual life
I didn't have this issue personally but I list several different things you can try in this thread in 3 different replies: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/has-anyone-cured-pe.341037/
I was in the same boat as of you. I even thought of having PE before I had actual sex, cause I was watching too much porn and pmoing in minutes. Also read stories in internet and ads of it. So by default I thought I had the same problem. Wnen I was trying to have sex for the first time, I came right before entering. That was the level of anxiety. So I couldn't penetrate. Cause even before penetration I'd cum. (The girl was virgin, so it was another problem). After like months, I was able to penetrate but couldn't trust. I was just inside her and very slowly moving my hips. Cause I was about to explode. After that I was always afraid. but didn't let my gf know. I used those extra time pill before sex without doctors recommendations and it made my neck and body hot and bp high. There was extra hard Erection, I could last about 20/30 minutes but I wasn't feeling anything. It felt more like a pumping game. So after using once or twice I dropped this idea too. Then I looked for extra lasting condoms. initially were good but slowly those gel inside the condom made my dick so numb that it was just a pumping game and sex. I wasn't feeling anything again. The most fucked up part was, After one round I couldn't get hard again. The refractory period was so long. Some other time those condom worked reverse. Like I'd come within minutes and couldn't get harder again in the next 2/3 hours. It was fucking embarrassing and painful. In the meantime I was on active nofap mode. Like 2 years or something. I indeed saw porns or pmoed few times within the 2 years period but was mostly on nofap. So I thought enough of enough and started using nornal condom. What I did first I let her give me handjob before sex and after 30 minutes I'd start sex. I could last 30/40 minutes easily. And It was enjoyable. One day she insisted raw sex and I was stressed again. Cause Raw would always made me cum in secs. So after entering I was thrusting slow and was already feeling an orgasm is developing and I thought I'm gonna cum. To make things worse, she asked me to do harder and faster. I made a pause, and told her calmly, If I do harder I'd cum fast. She said ok go slow. Trust me after that I was able to last 30 minutes or more. I mean I had the full control over the game. Again in this time I was in active nofap mode. That was 4 months ago. I had no sexual encounter after that till now. So, in my case I'm still struggling to last the first round. But in the conjecture rounds I can last reasonably longer. Hope this helps.
