I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and she was the first one I’ve ever slept with. I have also watched porn my whole life every day or every other day. I have always been able to preform well and we have been happy. I have been smoking weed for the last 3 years non stop. Within the last 5 or 6 months I’ve been having erection trouble that I’ve never had before. I stopped smoking and master bating a month ago. I have found it has gotten better since I stopped both jut I can’t tell which one it really is. She also kissed someone one else a year ago in our relationship and I have forgiven her a year ago but I’m not sure if that has to do with anything. I have really bad anxiety and I can only really seem to preform when I’m drunk but the thing is I can get perfectly hard whenever I watch porn. Movies and show nudity doesn’t make me excited and most things don’t turn me on like they used to. The only time I feel horny is when I try to. Any ideas
PMO can definitely cause problems like you describe. It happens to most P users at some point, some sooner than others. It's called PiED (porn induced erectile dysfunction). The good news is, it's very fixable, but it'll likely take longer than a month, especially if you've been PMO'ing for a really long time. Have you checked out yourbrainonporn.com? There's a ton of great information about PIED and everything else P-related.
