sohardrn
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sohardrn

Fapstronaut, Male, from USA

Going to try supplementaling daily urges for masturbation with playing an instrument. May 17, 2024 at 6:49 PM

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    1. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Fucked up last night. Fixing my sleep schedule today. No more work after 7pm.
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    2. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      doing good :)
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    3. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      i need a hobby to do in the evenings, one with no screen
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    4. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      If i get time alone with a girl I like from now on, I'm just gonna cut past the bullshit and ask her out.
    5. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I have a crush on a girl who I won’t see for 2 weeks. I’m horny now and want to masturbate. I think masturbation is okay, but I want to not.
    6. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Stopped hanging out with some people who take my energy away and intentionally left the Discord servers.
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    7. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Have one girl in mind, will ask her on Thursday.
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    8. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Moving forward, if I feel a strong pull toward a girl I know I will just ask her out. Either in-person, or I’ll get a phone number & text.
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    9. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I keep analyzing wat I want in a girl and the girls I’m attracted to for too long before asking them out. Results in anxiety & overthinking.
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    10. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      DONE WITH CALCULUS FOREVER!!
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    11. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Masturbated to orgasm twice in one day a few weeks ago, been fine ever since. Wanted to do porn but something stopped me. I stopped me.
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    12. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Pretty sure it’s been 2 years since I started taking this NoFap thing seriously. I’ve come a long way.
    13. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I didn’t realize it was NNN until just now LOL
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    14. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Streaks are bogus. Just stop jacking off. If you screw up, make a change in your behaviors, environment, or yourself.
    15. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Not resetting the counter, but changing it to abstaining from porn as I feel that’s my main need. But thought I should self report.
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Still trying not to masturbate.
        Nov 4, 2023
      4. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I think I’ve separated myself from the counter for the most part due to slip ups, it’s a process. But if you’re slipping up once or twice a month, that’s fucking leagues better than you were doing when you started.
        Nov 4, 2023
      5. TheLoneWolf88
        TheLoneWolf88
        It's always the most difficult early in the streak. You can do this
        Nov 4, 2023
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    16. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Didn’t really search for porn, but did touch myself while on a dating app.
    17. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      50+ days in. there's a few girls in my classes i'm interested in, going to ask them out this week. tbh though too busy with school rn.
      1. Deleted Account
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        WOAHH 50+ DAYS! GOOD JOB DUDE. Anyways, hoping the best for you bro.
        Oct 21, 2023
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    18. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      i was last on here around the one month mark, i'm at day 53 rn it seems. i did get on dating apps for a few days in the mid, but deleted em.
    19. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      one month. what now? - keep going? date someone? sleep with someone? need to pick something soon.
    20. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      flatline has hit, it's not very fun lol, especially with what's going on in my life right now. but i can get through it.
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    Gender:
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    Location:
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    1. No Porn.
    2. No Masturbation.
    3. No Dating Apps.

    For 90 Days.


    1. Porn fucks up anyone’s head.
    2. Masturbation leaves me content, but fucks up my baseline. This stops my movement toward women. This stops my self-improvement. This stops my progress in all areas of life. I maintain where I’m at if I’m masturbate. I say don’t orgasm until you acquire a girlfriend you’re content with it. In the extra time between then keep building skills, money, and equity.
    3. Dating apps make me a slave to my phone. The fragmentation of my attention is bad. It tugs and tugs at my needs for love until I masturbate.

    I will satiate my human need for love not with masturbation, but with time forming deep connections with people of my choice.

    Porn fucks up your mind.

    It matters not if I’m unable to use dating apps at peak times like the start of Summer or the start of the semester. It only frees me up to get stronger in other ways as opposed to my competitors. Whether this is by abstinence, by educating, or by getting ahead in my career. I am getting stronger, which readies me for stronger mates. Think about my first date in freshman year, to the second date I had in junior year. Yes, there was a dry spell, but the the quality in women I was dating increased dramatically.

    Yes, you need love and intimacy. But don’t sacrifice your strength for it. In fact, strengthen yourself in the process. Fuck masturbation. Be around people of your choice.

    Remember how much you’ve woke up early, remember the countless hours you’ve spent in the gym, remember your cold showers.

    YOU ARE IN-CHARGE.

    A Thought On Dating Apps.
    The girls I ask out in-person are usually also on dating apps, or have been on dating apps which affects how they interact with you even as you approach them outside the app.
    I say, get stronger. So you can ask out women outside apps with less trouble. Rack up a streak while my classes are online, so when I’m back in class, I’m fucking ready. When Summer ends, I’m even more fucking ready. When I graduate, I’m a god.

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