My relationship is and has been great. We are older so having sex less frequency isn't uncommon. But I am sold on NoFap just due to the massive increase in performance and desire and my loving feelings go crazy for her, my love envelopes me for her. Wow, over 30 days with no PMO and 17 days with no MO, well, today I performed like I was 19, rock hard erection, half hard while I have her a massage. I was so excited this morning. I had butterflies and adrenalin was flowing through my blood with a lot of T. I had a fantastic work out last night and I got plenty of sleep. I woke up confident and strong. No anxiety about performance because I knew there was going to be no issue. I was getting hard after she got out of the shower. What's great about being 50 is the sex keeps getting better. You learn how to control when you O. What people who haven't been married for 28 years to the same person don't know is you get really good at pleasuring each other. We cum at the same time 90% of the time, and if not at the same time within a min. or two at the most. But PMO was starting to effect me, maybe 1 out 10 times. I quit PMO and I was erect like a 19 year old, making love and lasting for as long as I want, like a 50 year old. Edging did help me learn my PNR very well. Oh, and the prostrate, well, I can go twice as long without feeling like I have to pee. This is great, I am sold for life. And the desire that builds up for your wife, wow, I couldn't wait to make love to her. I didn't F her, I made love to her, her the person, the woman, all without zero fantasy, I was 100% in the moment, but why wouldn't I be, I had a rock hard erection, total control of when I am going to O, had her all warmed up from the massage, it was amazing. She was blown away by the amount of ejaculate, hell, I was too. Before we did it I told her I hadn't cum since the last time we did it, I think that really turned her on, so it was good all the way around. I am cautious of the chaser effect, but it wasn't that bad last time and I have been extremely successful at keeping all fantasies at bay and quite frankly I have no desire to look at P. It still turns my stomach. Keep strong, if you are wanting to improve your marriage and sex life, give up PMO and MO for life, you get so much desire you'll be getting some, trust me, they can sense it.
Not to be a downer, but it really is one day at a time. There's a thing called a Pink Cloud. Your enthusiasm is GREAT, no doubt. And it's important to be able to recall that feeling. Just have to be careful because typically P and MO compulsiveness is symptomatic of other underlying issues (stress release, trauma of some kind, etc.). Take the success you have, and be careful of the tendency we sometimes have towards overconfidence. While you are doing your thing, the P/M addict is quietly doing pushups in the background. :}
I am always en garde, and I never let myself get over confident or arrogant, but it is a fantastic feeling and I have to say, "new life!" So much better!
It's been two years of awesome sex for me and hubby since he ditched the porn and no pink cloud for us...it's still going strong!
That's awesome, and it does just get better and better, my wife and comment about it all of the time.
