okay, so I've started my college a month ago and it's basically a three years graduation programme. Lots of guys and girls are there. i even have a crush, but, there's already heavy rush. But, that's not my problem. my problem is that the boys have created a whatsapp group for all the fellow boy and are asking my contact no. to add me. And what I've heard about the group is they also share porn(as all are 18+) which includes images, vids and text. Here are the advantages and disadvantages, (which I can think of) of joining it... Advantages:- I will get every information and notices. I'll be connected with my buddies. I won't look like an introvert. Disadvantages:- Full of triggers. So, please help me out of this situation. You can give reasons in support of your answer...
You got a good streak, which probably is a good self control, dont worry. Triggers shouldnt be a problem at all. The group could be useful. I mean, what if you miss one class? You could get some info about it and get stuff done the next day!
This is an issue of priorities, if you had to choose which one would you go for? if its nofap then don't join the group, if its your college mates then join it. I can't see how far your streak is (its blocked lol) but if you are far into it then perhaps you can overcome the triggers and just focus on everything non fap inducing, if your still early on then I say nay.
Thanks for your reply. Right now I'm going through flatline and everything seems too easy, no urges. I think, I should think at it again when my flatline period is over. What say?
You should change the setting to never download videos automatically and if images are a trigger then that as well. This way you can participate in the conversation without having to see any images or videos. Both goals achieved. You should do this only if you have some amount of self-control.
I would say join. I can sympathise with your concerns and i would at least rudimentarily just throw the main 18+ adult content distributers a gentle line or a olive branch to keep the content down (perhaps i am being too polite about all this, but try it anyway) while you are present.
If you are constantly seeing temptation your going to slip up. If you were a recovering acoholic do you think you should take a few shots of whisky every once and awhile.
Honestly if they were true friends they would understand you not joining. You'll risk your reboot just to talk to these "buddies"? No way, this is your life here. Go and actually socialize with them instead of chatting on WhatsApp. Triggers should be avoided. Everyone here knows that. Very disappointed in the answers here. Those triggers will slow your reboot. If they want to hang or plan a time they can just regular text you. Plus you can maintain your own college responsibilities without needing reminders from friends. You can do this, I know you can.
First of all, thanks for showing trust in me.. This clears all the confusion. Btw, why did you change your avatar pic?
okay, thank y'all for voting and replying here and helping me as well. For now, I think I should wait before I reboot completely. Thanks y'all Take Care God Bless Stay Strong