Told long distance gf about issue now she isn't talking to me

Do most men have enviable relationships? In my experience most people don't.

That said, that doesn't mean there isn't something to be learned here about how much to share and when to share. The fact that others are going to have worse problems than you and have no issue attracting women by hook or by crook is just something you will need to get over.

 

This is a long-discussed issue in this forum. I don't think there's any need to talk about your porn viewing if it's in your past. I agree with SilentWolfSong that if they ask tell them the truth but you don't need to go into the details. I don't think a SO should be used to rid yourself of any guilt, it's something you need to work on yourself.