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Sudden PE

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Fabio456, Jan 20, 2024.

  1. Fabio456

    Fabio456 Fapstronaut

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    I am trying to quit porn etc. past week and a bit havent watched any porn. Some odd side effects but feel it’s going ok. Married and sex with wife been good on whole. Then last night errection then it disappeared while I was doing foreplay on her, fine I thought. Never had major Ed but have a while ago have. So after made her orgasm twice she starts on me. I had semi then. She gets on top as it’s fully hard now. I lasted about 40 seconds when she was going slow. I just couldnt control it, orgasm was weak as well. I don’t understand as for weeks as been cutting down been going a good ten minutes. I do pe exercises several a day Suggestions? Do I need to masturbate/edge without porn to build up stamina. It’s head of pen is that seems over stimulated easily?
     
  2. Real Jerry Seinfeld

    Real Jerry Seinfeld Fapstronaut

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    I think you're experiencing what some call 'flatline'. Sometimes when people are rebooting off porn, their libido falls off a cliff and they struggle to find sexual arousal. It typically doesn't last long.
     
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  3. Warfman

    Warfman Fapstronaut

    I would think of it this way. You've went from essentially Oing on demand to reducing that to mostly in person with your wife. It's natural your body is going to O faster because it's not used to holding that back. I also think PMO for many can be like a race to the finish, so you might have naturally been training yourself to O quickly. Now if you are only Oing with your wife much less frequently than you were before it's quite reasonable to face these issues.

    I have not had issues with ED. But I do know that when I don't O for quite some time I'm going to go quicker. The correlation is quite solid. More frequent Os relate to more stamina.

    I don't know that MO/edging to try and get more stamina is the solution, it actually is a pretty dangerous place I think. There's an SO here who said her husband went through a period of PE, but that only lasted 6 months to a year before he went back to lasting a more regular time. I'd say don't fret, keep your eyes on the long term benefits, and things will get better.
     
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  4. Fabio456

    Fabio456 Fapstronaut

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    Huge thank you for this was really helpful. I suspect I might get more issues but know long term it’s better for both of us.
     
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  5. Robindale

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    How have things been going for you this past month? Able to wean off the porn?
     

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