SUCCESSFUL MEN...Does abstaining from PMO and MO really make you more attractive to women?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by thecamfam, Aug 16, 2015.

  1. thecamfam

    thecamfam Fapstronaut

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    To All SUCCESSFUL MEN,

    Does abstaining from PMO and MO really make you more attractive to women? I've seen posts on NoFap where some men say this. They talk about it as if women are just drawn to them when they have been abstaining for a while. Could it be that it's just you being more attracted to women and therefore it causes you to behave in a certain manner? I'm not 100% sure and that is why I ask. Your insight into this issue would be greatly appreciated.

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    thecamfam
     
  2. Kenzo89

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    I can only speak of my experience even though there are many who can relate to this. Iv had streaks of 7, 11, 12 respectively, at the moment I'm on my 11th day. I can honestly say the attention is true. I get stares, smiles from alot of women and it gets me thinking 'what the? ... This hasn't happened before so why now?.
    I believe its because I appear more confident, cool , and I can truly admit that I feel good about my progress.
     
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  3. Headspace

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    What do you mean by 'successful'? Successful rebooting?

    Anyway, I feel a tendency into this direction as well. Well, the first time it happened for sure was yesterday, when a really attractive girl at the grocery stared at me at least two times, and I even might have looked a little wasted. She was staring at me when I noticed her, so she was the one who started. But don't expect a lot of women as your prize for abstaining from PMO. That won't help you.
     
  4. I can also vouch for this being true.
     
  5. SerpentEagleHeart

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  6. DannyCool

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  7. I have found this to absolutely be true, and coincidentally I was just about to make my own post about it right before I found this one. I have experienced this strongly in a few different ways:

    1. more instances of eye contact held by women, smiling, laughter, interest in conversation I start.
    2. more heads turning to look at me (I'm attractive but not in the magazine perfect sense)
    3. Biggest change: more women initiating social interaction with me.
    4. I have also noticed women I know from my PMOing past acting differently around me, more overtly feminine mostly.

    This shit is real, day 142!
     
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  8. 8BitsOfStuggling

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    What is your motivation for knowing? Are you asking so that you can use it as a motivation to become PMO free? Because if that is the case, then no PMO free does not make you more attractive. Find reasons you want to truly become clean.
     
  9. Bluffy

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    It's been a while since this thread was created. What are your thoughts on the topic now?