Possible trigger words but not too bad. Hi everyone. Nearly 9 days into my reboot, and I'm wondering if I need to reset. I haven't watched any porn, or masturbated. My sex drive and confidence shot up around 3 or 4 days in, I was going nuts, I took action and met up with a girl and it clicked, we had sex within an hour of meeting her... I even done it again yesterday. However even though I said I would let myself orgasm with another female during the reboot, I had a problem. The girl fully understood and was accepting of the issue, but I wouldn't go up for ages, but I'd be really turned on by her and what we was doing. I got my drive and confidence back but my PIED was still evidently there.. I had to have her suck it a lot or Jack myself off hard to get hard, to then fuck her. I also came really really quickly as I was busting from days of not cumming when I was used to cumming to porn or mental imagery masturbating 5+ times a day... So because I had PIED I had to jack off while with the girl, does this constitute a reset? She got me up once but it was a struggle. Atleast I know exactly what the problem is PIED and It shall recover the longer I abstain from porn. Should I keep trying to have sex every few days? Am I jumping ahead of myself way too soon? It's torture having PIED and PE and really wanting sex with this girl, it's took the pressure off being tempted to watch porn, in my case anyway... I also believe I might have death grip if she struggled to get me up with oral and light grip jerking... I had to roughly jerk to get a response from my dick... This doesn't mix well with PE and PIED... By the time I'm hard, I've been jerking that rough I'm close to Oing... Any advice please? Thanks
I can only speak from my own experience, but delayed ejaculation/PIED probably won't get cured in 9 days, and probably won't get cured as fast if you're having sex in the meantime. Might be better to lay off all kinds of sexual stuff for a while, not just porn and masturbation. Or, at least, that's what worked for me. As to whether to reset your timer...that's 100% up to you. It might help to sit down and write out what, specifically, you will count as a reset going forward. Simple, specific, true/false statements. Like, "No touching my dick except for peeing and showering." Amend as necessary, but if/when you cross one of your lines, you'll know.
