Is no place safe on the web anymore? Why is racism not OK but P is??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by cleaningupmyact, Apr 26, 2024.

  1. I'm so upset. I thought I found a family-friendly, chill, creative place on the web. It has 99% all ages content without hate speech, politics, and (I thought) adult content. I found a single P site and went around looking for how to report it.

    Then I find there's no way to report things. I dug deeper...turns out there's dozens of shitty P sites, some linking to fetish shit and all the ugly world of PMO we know only too well...

    Finally, I found a contact page, dug into TOS, and tried to see what was up. The result? A bunch of language about how "Were not responsible for anything hosted" and "if it isn't illegal, we wont remove it or try to remove it." the EXACT SAME language that the absolute WORST P sites have...in a place that "appears" safe and is clearly all ages.

    but oh, in the TOS it says "no racism, hate speech" and the usual jargon. Hollow.

    Why do these sites have anti-doxxing, anti-hate speech, etc. in their TOS, but then they allow fucking P to hook minors and lead them into the most fucked up shit online?? What the fuck is wrong with these people??

    I'm so tired of it. I'm so tired of the web being unsafe and these hosts never being held accountable or even *trying* to live up to the lowest fucking bar.

    Since when did racism and hate speech become bad while sex trafficking and hooking minors on PMO is OK?? uggh.
     
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  2. Yin&Yang-Yūki

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  3. ThePerspicacious

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    Long answer: The world is fucked up, but we can't change the world, we can only change ourselves and make rules for ourselves
    Short answer: Focus on yourself
     
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  4. mentorr

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    The reality is that nothing we say or do will change the power that the porn industry holds over the masses - for now. The elimination of porn on a global scale is unlikely to happen in our lifetimes. That does not mean that we cannot pave the way for it to happen in the future.

    Until then - focus on yourself
     
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  5. AbelHimself

    AbelHimself Fapstronaut

    Because sex sells. There is porn even in the Wikipedia, so no, no place is safe.
     
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  6. Thanks everyone, really appreciate the reality check. focusing on what I can control is smart. I've been getting messages all day from gooner shits defending this site. I turned off that stuff and Im gonna make a clean break and focus on me. You're right, its the only way to go.

    Yeah, maybe wont change in our lifetimes but I cant help anyone if Im triggered or relapse back into that gooner dopamine slave to pixels life again. I gotta break free for myself first. its so rough.
     
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  7. Ghost101

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    Then man is a sexual animal. You want to castrate everyone? Lol
     
  8. I have no idea what youre talking about. But it doesnt sounds like 279 days sober
     
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