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Fascinating Feeling and Experience

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Min, May 16, 2015.

  1. Min

    Min Fapstronaut

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    Hey Guys!

    I'm gonna share with you about my recent personality changes since I've stopped PMO for about almost 10 days now. FYI, this is the longest I have gone with no PMO for about more than a decade.

    I work at home a lot, so basically I spend almost all day/night in a single room. To a lot of people this may seem like a madness, however, for me I enjoy spending more time by myself. Every since I have quit PMO I've been having urges to go outside to socialize, or at least find someone to date. My social anxiety has been reduced, I have gained more confidence, higher self-esteem, and more focused. Quite fascinating that I can see these changes on myself. I'm not gonna lie but I've thinking about sex a lot, but I think it might be normal, but I still don't think about PMO. Ever since I noticed these changes I've decided to sign up joining some parties and head out more to learn socializing. I know for a fact I will suck for a while, but I will do it till I succeed.
     
  2. Great to hear that you're excited about this. I know exactly what you mean about wanting to go out and accomplish things. I get the same thing after about a week or two of nofap. Do you notice that your voice gets deeper too? A lot of us do.
     
  3. Min

    Min Fapstronaut

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    No, I did not notice my voice gotten deeper. Probably, since I'm always alone and there is no one to talk to. But that's interesting. How does NoFap effect vocal cords?
     
  4. Some people say that the longer you retain your semen, your testosterone levels increase and that's why so many people talk about the voice thing. It would explain why people feel more confident and energetic though. There are a few websites that claim this is the case, and they talk about this in detail. Testosterone would effect the vocal cords as well as beard growth.

    It sort of sounds like what many Hindus say about a thing called "Virya", the vital fluid. It's basically semen. And how preserving it enriches a man's body, whereas wasting it makes him weak.
     
  5. Min

    Min Fapstronaut

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    Interesting, I wonder if vasectomy would still help to keep the testosterone levels high even continuing on MO.

    However, for me I haven't noticed any physical changes yet. But I can see tiny bit of changes in chemistry, not very strong yet though. Ever since I've completely stopped on PMO I've blocked all websites that I had a habit of going through them. But I'm gonna be honest here, since I spent most of my time in a room working, I have 2 urges; either go out or PMO. But I've been resisting both urges, and focusing on my primary issue, which is resolving financial disaster. Once I have that covered I will try and go out more, improve my social skills.

    And thank you for the encouraging words!

    (IF ANYONE IS CURIOUS ON HOW TO BLOCK WEBSITES, MESSAGE ME AND I WILL GUIDE YOU.)
     
  6. Good luck with your financial situation.

    Do you think that people use pmo out of boredom sometimes? Maybe if we all had more fulfilling lives then we wouldn't need to fap.

    As the hormone thing, whenever I eat a testosterone boosting diet, I find I want to fap a lot more.
     
  7. Min

    Min Fapstronaut

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    I doubt if boredom or anything has to do stopping you from stopping yourself. It's the power of will that you need to strengthened, regardless of any type of situation you're in, whether it's fapping, drugs, alcohol, or anything that destroying you.

    Here is a video from LOST that I find quite inspiring: (Don't worry, it's just a single scene that's not very related to whole LOST's story)

     
  8. Great video. I understand. I see that we are both just over a day in our pmo counters, At least at the time of writing this. We could somehow use this to inspire us not to relapse.
     

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