Applying the principles of taught by the BKWSU to stop mastubation addiction

This article outlines the use of the principles taught by the Brahmakumaris World Spiritual University in stopping Masturbation Addiction and living a better life.

Please give five minutes to read the article. Think of the hours that you spent stroking your dick. These five minutes may be all that you need for a better life if you find yourself accepting it easily. If not at least give it a try before dismissing anything from your mind.

The fundamental teaching

God says,

“My dear children understand that you are a soul and remember me. Then you will be liberated from the sins of your many births.”

Now does that mean that I am going to give you yet another boring lecture on praying to god to forgive your sins? No. The knowledge of course needs you to delink your mind from the fact that you are a body. Why? Because the moment you think you are a body, you see the world in terms of bodies. Does that mean that I am not a body? Yeah that’s what you thought you were but have you ever thought why people say stuff like sex is not everything to a relation, money is not life, good grades do not mean that you are intelligent, biceps are an indicator of your fighting skills, etc. What these sentences convey is that there is an emotional part behind these to be compensated to be successful. That is when you think yourself as a body; you need food, air, and water first. Then comes education and jobs. Yes these are necessary. But what extra things come along with is the urges to have more money, better grades, a sexier girlfriend, seeing new porn, etc. Why? Because you feel that these give you happiness. Well these give you emotionless pleasure. What is the difference between happiness and pleasure? Happiness is pleasure with a good reason while pleasure is something you can feel with bad motives too. Like that feeling when you jack off. You feel as if you are at your emotional height. But it gives you nothing and probably there is no other reason to feel happy about it. You just have some pleasure which is empty. Happiness comes when you have resisted an urge to fap and come to NoFap.com and write about your conquest (Yeah those posts about bursting and smashing and firing and god knows what your urge to fap). Well why don’t these last enough? This is because consciously you still want that pleasure of fap, of fucking a beautiful girl. This is due to your tendency to see bodies. Seeing bodies makes you distinguish between good and bad looking. So why the fucks do I have two eyes? To see obviously. But just to see. Not to think about a beautiful girl as an awesome object in bed. Similarly due to body consciousness, we make many more fundamental mistakes in our decisions (you are thinking not to fap while stroking your hosepipe). SO finally what to do?

If I am not a body, what am I?

Well this question has been given different answers but the most accurate one is that you are a soul. Why accurate? Because it is logical. How is it logical? We will see after I give you the details of what a soul is.

A soul is basically a point of light. Is it matter? No it’s just the energy responsible for running the body. In other words you are a soul. You make the decisions. You feel the emotions. You control the senses of the body. Emotions are happy, sad, etc. Senses are touch, smelled. The soul is pure,peaceful,powerful,happy,blissful and most important of all loveful. It has three modes of operations. One is the mind (thinking) brain (decisions-this is why the body is affected by the decisions you make. Like to be positive or not. To fap or not, etc) and the character traits (the pre-programmed stuff. Like your strengths and weaknesses, skills etc.).

So what does this have to do with NoFap? Well if you were intelligent, you would have guessed that since the soul’s original nature is to be peaceful, pure, happy, etc. You do not need porn to satisfy your appetite. What? Yeah you read it right. You don’t need sex to be happy, good grades to be happy, etc. Then what about the world running behind being happy? Alas our hero the mighty soul has an Achilles heel. What is that? Body consciousness. What again back to the beginning? No. The fact remains that you could be the millionaire’s long lost son. But until someone revealed it to you, you won’t run to your dad (or the million dollars). Similarly the soul is powerful but when it forgets that it is actually one and wrongly assumes itself to be a body, it will run behind bodily pleasures which it can’t ever be satisfied with. Fuck one, go to the next, Nah she’s boring, go to the next and this way the cycle goes on. What the soul wants is happiness and running behind dry pleasure will make it even hungrier, powerless and happiness deprived. Pleasure is instantaneous but momentary. Happiness is like wine. As time passes it keeps on increasing (90 days...happy—180 days....happier—360 days...Aim free!!!).

SO coming to the crux of the matter-How to be happy? (Now that you know that you are a soul, I won’t talk about making the soul happy. You are the soul. How will you be happy?)

Well the answer is simple.

Silence.

What? Yeah the answer has more to it. Me and you (We are souls remember?) came from Shantidham—our home where there peace and power and silence. Now after coming here we have lost all three of them. Now how to get to that original state of power? By bringing in any one of these and the easiest of them happen to be silence. Silence brings peace which brings happiness which brings power. Yeah happiness gives you power. So frankly speaking it is happiness which will give you the power to win over fap. It is happiness you need. Not blank pleasure. Pleasure has created a void in you. Sapped you of motivation. Happiness now is the key. You can’t feel happiness spontaneously. You will have to work for it. But once you feel it, there is no stopping.

A note on god

Well if you were like me you would have seen god as someone very powerful and almighty and dismissed him as nonexistent just because you could not see him or in clear words access him. In reality god is universal and is not dependent on religion, caste creed and belief. He is like the sun moon and the earth. Just because you choose to believe in the non existence of the moon, the moon will not disappear. Just because you lock yourself in a dark, cold room, you can’t say that the sun is cruel not to give you light and warmth. Similarly you can’t dismiss god as non existant and so cruel for not helping you in this journey. God is light like us and is our creator. He is not responsible for our choosing to remain in the dark room of body consciousness. His duty is to give the light of knowledge and the warmth of power. This article merely summarises what he has told. The choice rests upon you the soul to make your life better by changing your character traits of lust which had been produced due to body consciousness by coming back to the realisation of a soul and remembering god as the supreme soul, thereby becoming powerful. How to make the connection? Well that is what Raj yoga Meditation is about. Based on the response for this article, I will give you the details as it involves giving more knowledge. What I have given in this post is an introduction.

For further details:

www.bkwsu.org

www.learnmeditationonline.org

www.brahmakumaris.com

Me: [email protected]

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