Hi everyone, Anyone experienced premature ejaculation after rebooting? I don't know if is a Porn problem or another problem, i think is another because i don't watch porn with the frequency was used to. I'm starting a relationship with a girl i met since 4/5 months and at first relationships i don't had premature ejaculation but the last 3 times we had sex i think ejaculated too soon. Any ideas or help? I'm going to a Psychologist but we're treating another topics, related to how I got to know this girl, but no talking about sex with this girl, should i talk about this? To add context, my situation with Porn: I no longer watch porn as often as I used to (every day or a lot of times a week) since 2020. Months before I had my first traumatic sexual experience, erectile dysfunction, which made me start looking for the reasons and start NoFap. I managed to complete the challenge of 90 days and more. After that I felt like I was in control and was able to watch porn and not fall back into a routine or addiction. I don't masturbate very often, maybe every ~2weeks, or sometimes more, but the few times that I masturbate, i masturbate without porn. But being honest every 4 or 5 months on average, I get to look again one time (PMO) and then "I go back to normality". I control this because i have a saved videos on some drive account and Google Drive have an option that says the last time you viewed that video, so when i enter i noticed that most of the time there are several months difference. Do you think this could be the problem? Regards
This is common after rebooting. Just keep having sex, you will become more familiar with your arousal cycle and your body will acclimate, helping you to last longer. In the meantime just enjoy the sex. Make sure to give her head before so she gets her nut. Don't be embarrassed, just tell her she's super sexy and makes you cum really fast. If she's still wondering why you cum so quick, tell her you used to watch a lot of porn and it messed with your sex life, and you think she's super pretty and you want to enjoy sex with her, so you're stopping PMO. Girls love that shit, especially when you've been with them for a while. I would just not PMO in any way, combined or separate. Let sex be your only pleasure. It'll start to build up neurons wired to sex, making it feel better each time AND act as a growing defense against the motivation to watch porn. Rewiring is key to recovery, and since you have a long term partner, use this opportunity to build up the neural networks wired to sex and not porn.
