just wondered if anyone has any thoughts about how best to handle this situation. i met this new girl and it was only after spending the night with her that i realised i had become over dependent on porn. i couldn't get it up as much as i wanted to and tried to. think i have PIED because i can get an erection to porn. i've eliminated porn completely from my life and want to reboot but i also don't want to lose her. i've been very honest with her and she has been amazing. i can't expect her to hang around for 90 days waiting i read somewhere else it was 2-6 weeks! we are going away soon and i have it in mind to get some viagra as a 'just in case' treatment for the night. like i'm trying to balance both sides. i know abstinence is whats needed for my PIED but thats not the case for this relationship i think. so need to balance it so we both win anybody been through this before?