another success post!

hi fapstronauts,

here is another success story. my journeys so far:

first - 104 days hardmode (relapse: 3 times fapping with watching two hours porn)
second - 114 days hardmode (relapse: 2 times fapping with a few pornpics)
third - 73 days hardmode - current journey

in total 291 days with 5 times masturbation. for a sex-and-porn-monster like me this is insane!

i started hardmode by myself - after 4 days i found this forum. i cant describe how enormous this forum helped me in this brute fight.

in the first three weeks i read posts like a maniac. i realized that there is something called pornaddiction! damn i was not alone. and this forum showed me that a cure is possible.

this forum is full with knowledge about pornaddiction.

my most important experiences/insights...

1 - dont panic you will have many wet dreams, they are a part of this challenge.

2 - dont panic after relapsing - just dont binge! start again.

3 - read success stories over and over again!

4 - always tell yourself:
"i have the choice to watch or to avoid porn - no one is forcing me to watch this fake and damaging stuff!"

5 - dont blame the porn industry! there is no porndirector standing behind you with a gun in his hand and forcing you to watch his "valuable art" called porn! we are not victims of the porn industry, we are victims of our own (uncontrolled) passion. we are visiting porn websites consciously, we are moving the mouse!

6 - do sports - the best substitute for sex and porn.

7 - find a real hobby. doing sports is not a hobby it is a part of life.
hobbies for example: watching soccer, playing guitar, cooking, baking bread, dancing in your room, walking like robocop etc.

8 - the most important facts for me are:
i dont want to watch other people having sex - while sitting alone in front of a pc-screen and spanking the monkey!
i want real sex with real women IN REAL LIFE. hell yeah i want real relationships!
furthermore i want to stop pollution caused by enormous use of toilet paper!

9 - help new fapstronauts. this move supports your own reboot.

10 - dont snivel like a three-year-old. this is not a pony farm. this is sparta!

be strong and stand up after a relapse.
i will add some good and helpful threads to this post.
there are many (many many many!) excellent threads in this forum.

thanks to all mods for the work they are doing here.
here some flowers for the mods...
(caution: the music in the following video can cause ear-cancer!)






edit:

if you are a nofap-greenhorn, read the following thread every morning before breakfast.
it is helpful and informative.

http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...-rebooting-extremely-long-but-valuable.36668/

 

watch twenty times robocop (the real robocop from 1987) in succession and copy his moves. you can use this moves at work or at school.

"magnetic sexual aura" what is that?! i have the magnetic sexual aura of an old coffee maker. still waiting for the girls.

 

benefits? you mean superpowers?

ok...what happened in 83 days...

i can run like a cheetah, i have muscles like the rock, i can play soccer like CR7, i can play guitar like slash, i can sing like justin bieber and i can fly like superman.

enough benefits keeneye?

now serious...

i feel free - the compulsion (to pmo) is vanishing. this is very important for me. i am transforming to a "normal" and relaxed guy - like i was before pornaddiction.

but i have still some shitty whithdrawals: strong headaches, lack of concentration and insomnia.

 

right - porn is extrem easy to receive. the internet offers endless free stuff. never thought it will be so damaging in the end. in the beginning it was just some "harmless" fun. then watching more and more - harder and harder stuff. waiting for new stuff on my favorite-pornsite like a junkie. now i can realize what it did to my brain. i am 37.

earthdragon,
i am a big justin fan. i have all his albums - and i can sing each song. you must embark yourself into his music!