What? Start another 90? Jerk off? Have sex? I want to be free of porn for good but I sincerely don't know what comes after reset. Anyone who's made it three months care to comment?
I made it to 90 days and I am continuing with the challenge. There was no way that I wanted to go back to where I was before NoFap. I have set a new target of 200 days. For a couple of weeks before I reached 90 days, I was pretty confident of getting there so I spent some time thinking about what I would do afterwards. I came to realise that 90 days was just the beginning rather than an end point. It's all in my journal which I updated weekly right throughout the 90 days.
What didn't 90 days get you? What will 200 days get you? Just curious. I am still trying to get to 30 days. Best of luck.
For me it's not really about counting days any more. It is about changing my lifestyle, getting rid of bad habits and maintaining the good habits and positive approach I have developed. 200 days is just a convenient round figure to aim for that will bring me close to Xmas and some other significant dates in my life. Everyone's journey is different. One thing I am certain about is that I have no desire to go back to where I was pre-NoFap.
I havent made it 90 days -or five -im just saying AFTER one does what do yoy do? Sorry for the confusion!
that´s a great answer ulick myers."changing my lifestyle" is exactly what i´m doing. i´m 29 yo an i want to live healthier and make something out of my life. i now have 75+one relapse+23 days on my counter. I dont have a job, i´m at college but thinkin about quitting. I got plenty of other interests coming up since nofap. like singing and gardening and other stuff. great to be here. Kris
After completing 90 days.... 1. Celebrate! You have earned a reward, so do something meaningful for yourself. 2. Please accept my congratulations. Hats off to you, this is a huge, huge accomplishment. 3. Sex is definitely OK at this point. 4. Why not go another 90? Just leave PM in the dust.... Best, Riptied
