I'm 27, and seriously, I discovered masturbation in 4th grade. I did it often, almost every night until i was about 19. That's a lot! I believe this is why i started losing my hair so young at 17. I didn't use porn often, but i watched it. I mostly would fantasize in my mind while Fapping. The real change started when i liked this one girl a lot, and i decided i would not fantasize about her while... ya know. She was so wonderful i couldn't disrespect her like that, behind her back. Then in College, without any awareness of the concept of nofap, i made a decision with myself that i wouldn't Fap until i had sex with a girl. Because i realized as long as i was fapping i wasn't going out to make progress with women to share in sexuality with them. Good news is I succeeded! I got a girlfriend and we had sex! Bad news is, after i fulfilled my goal, I Fapped, because my decision was that i wouldn't until i had sex. Anyway eventually she dumped me for many reasons. Later in life, about 20 years old, i quit masturbating for spiritual reasons, ate raw food, meditated, sun gazed, practiced yoga postures, and learned about many things. I realized that once i stopped it wasn't too difficult to keep up the NoFap for long periods of time. My energy was Great, Eyes bright, clear skin, clear mind! But occasionally i would have intense wet dreams and ejaculate in bed. Nowadays, I have been Fapping and i want to stop. I want to find a partner to share sacred sexuality in a lasting relationship. I have researched many ancient traditional methods including the Taoists to help with my sexuality both solo and with a partner. To name a few are: "The Deer Exercise" is nonsexual but increases sexual health and prevents wet dreams; "The Hold Back Method" which allows one to enjoy sexual stimulation without reaching the point of ejaculation, therefore lasting longer during sex or masturbation; "The Million Dollar Spot" allows a man to block the semen from escaping from the penis, this conserves some of the energy and nutrition that is lost during ejaculation, but it is not ideal. I have made a decision to ween myself off from Fapping while i go out to meet people and date women. I am active in finding a partner in my community who will enjoy helping me practice these toaist techniques with her for sacred sexual healing. I currently have not had any action with women in many months, and before that last experience it had also been many months. I have a lot of issues to clear up in my social, dating, and sexual life. So I am working on many areas of self improvement to get my life in order. Thank You for reading! Peace
