Calling all Indian bhai's here cause I see a lot of them out here. Of course the Indian perspective to the dark stuff is taboo so we can support ourselves better if we get together.
@NF_Titan I totally agree that talking dark stuff is taboo in our culture and to some extent that gets us in trouble too! Hope more Desis talk about the issues that are unique to us and find support we need.
funny thing is that fap has become a subject of joke among the youth nowadays. They agree on doing it and laugh it off not realizing the seriousness of the problems it poses.
- -my best wishes go to your success in nofap and academics. - I too faced the problem of not focussing on exams and fapping earlier. -
@swaggy when I was young there was so much pressure on me to get in to engineering college that it worked against me. I simply couldn't perform to the best of my abilities. I was not exposed to P at the time but had I been I would have been PMOing everyday but eventually P found a way in to my life and I was affected by it for a very long time. To some extent I can blame things on P but the fact remains that I was not well equipped to handle pressure, anxiety when I was very young and subsequently. Only recently have I began to find ways to cope with my anxiety. I am glad there is more information available now to recognize these maladies. I hope more people benefit from this new found information.
I'm not Indian, but in my last years of High School I was adopted into a group known (throughout the school) as the 'Indian Mafia', as it was comprised entirely of Indians. So hence, many of my close friends are from your culture. I've seen how they struggled to keep a balance with what they wanted and what their parents wanted (academics, arranged marriages, family responsibilities among other things). I would just like to tell you all that I think its great that you're sharing with each other the difficulties you have to live by, especially the fact that you are not allowed to talk any of the taboo subjects which isolates people in Indian culture profoundly But we're in the information age now, and remember, you are not alone!
Thanks nf_titan n lakemichigan fr showing ur support fr me.......n its great to have this indian bhai thread on nofap!