It wouldn't be for me (a relapse), but it might be triggering. But I don't like rap. Seriously, though, any part of your thinking that was "looking for trouble"? Do you have an AP that you have discussed in advance what constitutes a relapse and what does not? Having that worked out in advance prevents this kind of confusion. -Quinn
bruh im not im at day 8 and im 14 so ofcourse i ask dumb questions i have a femdom addiction and im trying to get to 90 days
Ok dude, but you ask some mad questions. Nothing is a relapse unless you tug your winky. Calling your girlfriend "baby" is not relapse. Your girlfriend sending pics of her legs is not relapse, it's awesome. You need to programme your little developing brain for healthy sexual impulses and acts. Get her to do more of it. Kiss, touch, play. Love be with you.
So I Was on youtube and all i see is a thumbnail of two guys kissing which is called niuolkda alvacdo or something i saw it and qucikly turned off is this a relaspe>
it depends what you mean replacing. it all lies into your initial goal. if you wanted to stop porn, jerking off and avoid anything explicit then it is a relapse. ( of course in my book it aint relapse cos she is your girlfriend). she is your girlfriend and l assume you have sex too. but be aware mate, all of the relapse started from a tiny thing. it's a process. it builds up and boom all of sudden you find yourself beating the meat again.
Also, describing it in plain in the title of your thread is not nice to the people who could get triggered. Please consider being a little more cautious
For what it’s worth, I would not consider that a relapse. If you were actively seeking this sort of thing, then yes. If you accidentally stumbled across it and quickly clicked off of it, then no. For thinking about it after, it all depends on your thoughts. Where you only focused on whether or not it was a relapse? Or were you thinking about the actual content? Just my two cents. Your mileage may vary.
- Explicit thread names in caps - Original post has 1 line with no question nor information - Usually very triggering language / graphic descriptions ^^