Please help! I don't know what to do

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by MarksonmMirand, May 29, 2017.

  1. MarksonmMirand

    MarksonmMirand Fapstronaut

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    I've attempted multiple times, but I really don't know what to do to stop this.
    I'm addicted to a fictional character. There is one picture that I keep on visiting. I fantasize about the character in bed, I am obsessed.

    I have no idea what to do. If someone has experience with this some advice would be greatly appreciated.
    If you need me to clarify on anything just ask.
     
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  2. IamRick

    IamRick Fapstronaut

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    I bet its Kim possible, shes bad AF. You might wanna grab a few porn blockers if your really struggling, K9 Is pretty good so is Anti-Porn.
     
  3. noonoon

    noonoon Fapstronaut

    It's not the character that is the problem. It's the porn addiction. P addiction manifests itself in weird ways. From what i've read on this site, you're quite lucky it's just a fictional character. Start with a nofap challenge, say 10 days or so. Journal the challenge on this site. You'll pick up a lot as you go.
     
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  4. stygian

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    I don't understand the question. You should never visit that picture. Also the goal is to not fantasize about the character. Did you not know that, or are you asking for help with dealing with the urges of looking at the picture, or are you asking for help on how to stop fantasizing?
     
  5. Simple solution really… Go out into the real world and meet real girls, stop hiding behind a screen. I could be mistaken but it sounds like you don’t spend enough time around real girls because if you did then you would not need to fantasize over a fictional character.

    I don’t know how old you are but if you are old enough how about trying something like speed dating. That way you are FORCED to interact with REAL girls.
     
  6. slb

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    At the end of the day does it matter if it's one picture many times or many pictures once each? Does it matter that it's a fictional character? It's never really real to an addict. Yes, it's real people making the porn (at least you don't have to worry about that!), but the situation, the relationship to it are fantasy not reality for the addict.

    In other words all the advice here can be just as relevant to you as to anyone else. Treat it like a porn addiction. Stop using it. Find other things to do. Reboot.
     
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  7. Lion's Heart

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    I belive that this is the solution.
     
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  8. Block this pic already!
     
  9. MarksonmMirand

    MarksonmMirand Fapstronaut

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    Thanks to everyone here for the help and advice. I just beat the urge.
     
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  10. Kable

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    Its okay, keep attempting. When you give into your old habit, don't spend a lot of time feeling sorry for yourself. Just look at the events leading up to it, change some things, and keep on going.
    There is no "failure" in healing. Its all about progress. Keep pushing forward even if you give in every 2 days. With enough changes overtime, you'll get to where you want-- letting go of that fictional character.
    Also, be honest with yourself. Don't fall into the trap of "oh I'm going to fap to this and right after I'm going to make changes so i can not fall into it next time".