Hi guys , what are your challenges for next year in terms of PMO addiction... Personally i want to make a 6 month hard mode reboot .... i now that its going to be very hard and i need to do some changes in my lifestyle that are feeding negative patterns and lead me to PMO. The last days i had read a lot of info in the forum , and i had identify my triggers and patterns, so I think that a good strategy and a proper mindset Are going to help me to accomplish my goal. Lets do this¡¡¡
100 days... Man thats a very good streak , keep it going, never consider returning to the old patterns
Ultimately, I want to live the rest of my life never getting close to PMO again. Living a new life without PMO would be better accomplished if I do this in shorter blocks of time, and not take on all of eternity at once. The year 2016 has been one of struggle. This was the first year I've made deliberate efforts to rid my life of porn and to stop masturbating. Although I am disappointed by many failures, I can take all I've learned from these into a successful 2017. This has not been "the year" for me. It has only been a year of trial-and-error. I have had long streaks of success, but I've always broken these with relapses. My first goal for 2017 is to reach May 21, 2017 without PMO. (May 21 is the end of the school year, a significant date.) I am starting toward that goal now. There are now 150 days until May 21, 2017. I already have six days of success behind me. On May 21, 2017, I will have 156 days free of PMO. A lot of questions run through my mind about how to deal with what remains of my unfulfilled sexuality. I question whether it even needs to be fulfilled at all. Those questions have, in the past year, confused me, and I've given wrong answers to them and done the wrong things. I am not going to ask such questions any more; they are suspended for the time without any reason to be answered. After I have gone through the time of change between now and May 21, I will then take up these questions again. That will be the time to deal with the possibility or impossibility of having some kind of sexual life. The only answer for the weeks and months ahead is hard mode.
