Im new to the board and I would like to quit looking at porn and jacking off forever. I barely started having sex about a year ago and I missed out on the good years of sex for the most part 18-26. I got into porn and thought my dick was too small so I wasn't confident and I still fight this today. idk whats wrong with me but every time im under pressure or stressed I jack off my sex life is alright but in order to be as hard as I want to I have to take ed pills and jack out when I ejaculate women look at me weird when I do this but its because of about 12 years of jacking off. I've been having some of the best sex of my life over the past year and I have porn induced ed I want to kill I have to think of some porn scene while I have sex just to cum and I really don't need to (not to brag). On average I have sex once every other week and I just want to quit looking at porn and jacking off its messed me up in a lot of ways and Its to the point that looking at porn and jacking off has become boring to me. I can't even finish a film and I rarely cum from jacking off to porn. I've even fell asleep to some xxx flicks but its like every time I mention porn I go jack off. The reason why I have to take ed pills is due to this and theres had been a few times where I wasn't able to get hard or sustain a hard on but on ed pills its very hard to cum so its a catch 22 for me. I want to break these chains before I die I know it won't be an overnight process but I need a support group and help to stop this so I can be normal again. (My longest streak without is two weeks back in mid September of 2013)
Welcome. Spend some time reading; the place is filled with tips. If you want to quit, you can do it. Part of it is going to be learning to say "No" to yourself. Part of it will be holding yourself accountable. Find a buddy in the accountability partners section. If you're like me, just starting to track one's PMO is a helpful exercise, and helps to walk away from the habit. My signature has a link to a counter you could use, or if that's too public, just keep a spreadsheet or mark up a calendar.
I need to do a better job of having self discipline and saying NO. I feel bad because I'm having some of the best sex in my life right now so i feel weird to still be jacking off I even have to take ed pills and perform jelquing exercises to substain good erections I noticed that the jelquing leads to jacking off so Im gonna quit doing that as well
r you single it seems hard when youre single to kick the habit its best to keep a female on deck and build up all anticipation for when you go and see her
