I want to look at porn. Somebody talk me out of it.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by pmarch12, Jul 28, 2016.

  1. pmarch12

    pmarch12 Fapstronaut

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    Things have been going well, but I've been thinking about it. I don't know why, I don't know what planted that seed, but it calls me. I know only I can make this decision, but I wanted to come here and tell on myself and hear what you have to say. Thanks.
     
  2. icanrockmylife

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    Remember one thing.

    There are two roads,
    to quit, or to not quit.
    if you replase this time, there'll be a relapse again.
    But the time goes on.
    If you keep relapsing, there will be less time for you to start over.
    You only live for 100 years (maybe more)
     
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  3. AllanTheCowboy

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  4. pmarch12

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    Yeah I made it. Truth is that I just have a lot of emotions that I'm dealing with. Using porn would just be looking for love in all the wrong places. Thanks chap.
     
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  5. Diomedes

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    Helps to switch out of the "I want to cum" matrix.

    When you don't chase orgasms, you don't look for/at porn.
     
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  6. philstronaut

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    Great job @pmarch12 :)

    Have you thought about healthier ways of dealing with your emotions? Resisting temptation is a brilliant first step but if those emotions aren't getting channelled elsewhere then you'll be storing up problems for later down the line.
     
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  7. seadoo54

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    Find a golf driving range , or baseball batting cages , see how far u can hit ! Put phone down get outside find a buddy !
     
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  8. pmarch12

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    Yeah I'm actually gaining more interest in things since I quit. I'm pretty busy with work, but know I have some outlets that I could probably take more advantage of.
     
  9. AllanTheCowboy

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    I find that thinking about how terrible I'll feel afterward is powerful enough to stop me. That got me through the worst times.

    Wisdom.
     
  10. seadoo54

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    I know it's kinda redneck but it is basic old fashioned fun , horseshoes or corn toss ,bowl some frames .
     
  11. decimalLuke

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    Get away from technologies! or get web blockers, it helped me to filter away unnecessary sites making entering such websites tougher.
     
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