I have a question, What do you find attractive in a potential mate?? What qualities do you desire in a girlfriend or boyfriend?? ...be as superficial or as meaningful as you want. And to what degree dose porn affect what you see as desirable and are porn users out of touch with reality when it comes who they expect to date?? Also is anyone here painfully awkward around younger women?? I find nice skin and hair very attractive which is mainly young women and if I have any sexual attraction toward someone like that I become very awkward which must come across as weird, I also feel anger at them for being so awkward and shy, your replies and comments are appreciated, Cheers
You may not feel attracted to someone who feels awkward and shy, but why would you be angry at someone because of it?
Sorry SnL I made a typo I meant to say the following... I also feel anger at them for making me feel so awkward and shy.
Still doesn't make any sense. They are not making you feel anything... I heard this metaphor somewhere a while ago about orange, from a spiritual speaker who's name I forgot. But basically, when you squeeze the orange and orange juice comes out, who's fault is it? The one's who squeezed it or orange's? I think orange's. Cos, well, that's what's inside. You can't expect apple juice out of orange when you squeeze it. So similarly when you get awkward and shy it's not girl's fault. They are triggering you, sure, but that's what's inside. They are not intentionally trying to hurt you so it makes no sense to be angry at them. They probably don't even know what's going on. They are just being themselves. For somebody else a beautiful girl might trigger a response of positive, motivational excitement, focus and self confidence to impress the girl, cos that's what's inside of them. It's important to understand this, that others are not to blame for what you feel, cos then you can start focusing on the real problem instead, and fixing it. I'm awkward around people 24/7 lol, more or less anyways. So girls are no different. I stopped caring long time ago. I just let the awkwardness go. People don't seem to care, in my experience. Everybody's too worried about themselves, how to be cool and stuff, to waste their time thinking about others. Initially I like cute face. That's probably more important for me than hot body. Even tho I do want her to have hot body too. I do prefer a girl who is working out. Not like a skinny one but also not like a chubby one. A toned body. Plus I also like exercising so that will be a good thing also cos we will have something in common. When things move to further bases I find I need positive attitude. I don't like people what whine about everything and are pessimists. Brings the mood down. I want her to be cheerful. And I want her to be rather talkative, cos I am not. I need her to balance me out. Open minded is important one. Cos some ways I see the life might seem weird for some people. I also want her to be somewhat spiritual in a similar way that I am so she could be my partner in that field of self development. And for her care more than just about pop culture and shoes. So we could discuss some ideas. I don't want her to be very romantic tho, cos I am not. And of course all the general stuff too like good sense of humor and etc...
Loyalty. Looks and all that whatever will get you in the door but having loyalty is what keeps you around.
I don't think she might exist but it's worth a shot.... I would like her to be cute,cute like karrueche tran.I like women with long-hair.I also like my women gym-fit she doesn't have to be a gym rat but she at least has to be physically active,like I am.I also like a woman that is laid-back,where she doesn't nag me and is very self-sufficient.I also want someone that has a positive influence in my life.No one wants someone who brings them down.She has to talk more than me becuase at times I can be really quiet.I want her to be open-minded because I am.Also I want someone that is family oriented and who comes from a good home.(no daddy issues or parental abandonment issues)A woman that makes me want to be a better man.My main personality traits they should have is:loyalty,trustworthiness,kindness and faithful
I like confidence, and women who don't cake their faces with makeup, I want a girl who argues with me and makes life interesting, I want someone I can share anything with and get good insight from. I want a woman who can cook well, so that my lack of cooking skills can be strengthened. I want a girl who's active and fit and doesn't laze about. A woman who makes me overall a better person. A competitive woman, one who challenges me everyday, one who makes me so much better everyday. And white and hispanic women only, just my preference and also a woman who's willing to have a lot of passionate sex
Easy! She looks good in a tight skirt. She loves a day portaging a canoe though mud, muskeg and rocks to get to those cool lakes for fishing. She eats meat. She isn't a drama queen and doesn't have trust issues. She party hard. She is a morning person when she doesn't party hard. She eats pretty much anything and likes cooking as much as I do or more. She can kill a running bear at 200m with a rifle. All my friends want her, of course. She has no problem with gluten. She has some kind of career. She likes picking berries. She loves to try stuff in bed. She has a good sense of humor. She supports me in the stuff I do. She does not smoke cigarette. She has a healthy lifestyle. She offers me magic mushroom at Christmas. She wears lingerie. She likes routines. She doesn't have a cat cause I already have one. She doesn't like condoms either. I don't think porn affected many of those things I like. Well, maybe the lingerie.
