Having problems with the attractiveness of my girlfriend

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by C04DR3D, Nov 23, 2020.

  1. C04DR3D

    C04DR3D Fapstronaut

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    Has anyone also experienced less sexual attractiveness towards their girlfriend while watching porn a couple times a week? Is this a thing?
     
  2. theprotagonist

    theprotagonist Fapstronaut

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    Yes, may be the beginning of a tittle PIED pal!
     
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  3. The more you normalize sexual activity, that being porn, the less attractive not so sexual things will be. I'm assuming your relationship with your girlfriend isn't that of constant sex. If you wanna change this, you need to stop feeding yourself so much dopamine from watching porn. Maybe just be more intimate with your girlfriend whenever you feel like watching porn.
     
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  4. onwards_upwards_1

    onwards_upwards_1 Fapstronaut

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    This is very common I think. The more you watch porn, the worse it will get. Afterall, how can your GF ever compete with a librabry of millions of women at your fingertips? The more you watch porn, the more your sex drive will become embedded in fantasy rather than reality.

    I actually spoke about this exact thing in a post I wrote earlier today. I'm nearly 30 days into no-porn and recently have found my sex drive towards my girlfriend drastically increasing. I'm hoping it's my brain re-wiring itself to be aroused by natural stimulus rather than by the unnatural sensory overload that you get from porn.

    Anyway, Keep up the no porn and no masturbation and I reckon you'll soon find your desire for her start to skyrocket.

    Good luck
     
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  5. OffCartman

    OffCartman Fapstronaut

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    Definitely.. My ex-gf was super hot, but after awhile I had to think about porn scenes I had just watched to get me over the edge with her. It wasn't healthy for the relationship, that's for sure.
     
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  6. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Are my sexual problems (ED, DE, low libido) related to my porn use?

    Studies linking porn use or porn addiction to sexual dysfunctions, lower arousal, and lower sexual & relationship satisfaction

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    What benefits do people see as they reboot?

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    If you don't wanna read these articles, then yes, porn is the problem. Stop watching it.
     
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