Am I gay?

I've had stuff sort of like this happen before. Maybe you're gay, but probably not. The thing to remember is that sexuality is malleable. Some people are very gay or very straight, and there's little to nothing they can do to change it, but most of us can bend a little, or a lot. The more you indulge pmo, the more confused people tend to get. I think that when you are breaking the addiction, sometimes you also get feelings and desires that you wouldn't normally get, since your brain chemistry is out of whack and is trying to re-balance.

 

Probably

 

Yeah man, you don’t have to be decisive about this issue at present, but just be open to your feelings. And if you do come to decide that you’re gay or bisexual, so fucking what! You don’t have to justify or explain yourself to anybody.

 

Without reading any of this thread I'm going to say no. The only other thing I can really say is it isn't a question any one else can answer for you.

 

Yeah u gay bud

 

I asked - and am still asking - myself the same question sometimes. Like someone above said, be open with your feelings and you'll find out. Sometimes I try to reference back to my youth - when you're feelings were very open.

But I just want to say that loneliness can really make you think and feel weird things. Look at prisons for example; why do some prisoners turn 'gay'? My observation is simple. Lack of females in your life and the body, well, I guess just has its desires and 'anything' will do at some point.

I think it applies to many things as long as what you crave is scarce. If you're home, broke, and so hungry you WILL try to find some leftovers or even eat those crackers that now eat like leather.

 

I have two theories here - I too have been concerned that porn has warped my sexuality and it can do that, but doesn't that suggest that we were open to it in the first place.

I have a feeling that many people are holding on tight to old- fashioned norms that just don't need to be clung onto anymore - no-one cares.

Secondly as some others have pointed out sexuality is such a wondrous thing to explore so what if you swing a little, enjoy it BUT WITH REAL PEOPLE!

But to really answer you're question - go out an kiss a guy - if you like then hey! you've found a whole new type of person to have fun and relationships with, if not then there's your answer.

 

Nah not because you liked it that a gay guy liked you, no.

Porn can make you question sexual orientation, this is a fact. You need to reboot.

 

I think you should take some time to take a step back and evaluate. Don't jump to the conclusion that you're a homosexual. Same sex desires come naturally for some people, but you don't know whether your same sex desires are temporary or permanent. It may be that you are simply bi-curious. It's not uncommon to wonder about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex.

 

It is quite difficult to answer this question for one self. Many people are bisexual and can enjoy sex with same-sex partners on different levels. Some people never want to admit to any of this due to their society-induced inhibitions. There are lots of married men who hook up with gay guys but pretend that they are straight.

I have never felt those inhibitions. I have realised that I was curious to have sex with men since I was a teenager. I finally tried and went into a gay sauna when I was 24 or so. I enjoyed it and soon tried having a boyfriend. This way I learned that I am not romantically interested in men. I enjoy homosexual sex, but I am not much into kissing and don't want a relationship. That is a completely different way of being gay than the men who want to marry another man.

You have to find out for yourself where you are on this spectrum. If you do have desires to have sex with a man, I think that you should try it to learn whether that is really for you. I know it takes a bit of courage at first, but if you never try, you will always have the feeling that you might have missed out on something great in life. If you are with a man and you don't like it, simply stop.

Now this sexual experimentation may not be something to do while you are trying to get rid of porn habits. But I think it is the best way of finding out what you really want.

I don't think porn has the power to make anyone homosexual. Maybe porn makes you aware that you have an interest in homosexuality. If you start watching gay porn, than I guess you are at least a little bit gay.