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As a living, breathing, non-porn woman, I can’t thank all of you enough for what you’re doing.

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This generation’s excessive use of internet porn terrifies me. The constant influx of new bodies, new kinks, new faces and breasts and buttocks flashing on screens in an unending search for perfection and an ever-hotter sex object freaks me out beyond belief. I know what a guy does in his alone time isn’t my business, but in the end what scares me is this: I can’t compete with that.

I’m human. I’m one person. I can’t be edited or cropped or only shown at my best angle. I have stubble and creases and blemishes and veins, I’m not tanned and oiled and lubed up and prancing around in a thong all day. What I’m finding is that the young men I’m with, even the ones who claim I’m the most beautiful creature they’ve ever seen (and they do) aren’t aroused by just me. I could get completely naked, sit on his lap, put my real hands on him and kiss him with real lips, and I’m still second best. I can’t be opened in five tabs as a brunette and a redhead and with huge boobs and small ones and thinner and curvier and the rest. I’m stagnant, stationary, one being. And somehow that’s not sexy.

Women NEED [Fapstronauts]. We need to be sexy again. We need a guy who can look at his girlfriend, his fiancee, his wife, and find her attractive. I’m looking for that, and I hope I find it, because in the end, I can’t settle for less. I can’t waste my time trying to fix myself and deal with rejection and disappointment because he couldn’t stay away from a hundred other, new, sexier girls. It’s too heartbreaking.

So thank you, each and every one of you, for doing what you’re doing (or not doing, I should say). You’re getting back to normal, you’re standing up and saying to the world “Sex should be sexy! Men should want their women more than their computers!” You’re giving me hope that I’m good enough, that it’s okay for me to be who I am, and that I can have a normal and fulfilling sex life.

If you’re ever feeling weak, or considering going back to the cycle of bingeing and craving and self-loathing, stay strong for us girls. You’re the Prince Charmings of the 21st century, because if he could have stayed home and pulled up “princessXXX18.com” she’d still be locked in that tower. You’re a new breed of heroes, and I hope I can find someone like you to sweep me off my feet and mean it.

Thank you.

-Anonymous NoFap Fan

Comments

  1. JoyofLife says:

    Thanks so much for posting this. Beautifully written article that really focuses on the positive things we’re aspiring too. Was a source of inspiration just now when I was feeling week. 🙂

  2. daniel_sour says:

    The picture could be a picture to a porn movie,tbh. Not sure what to think about this website, doesn’t seem true to it’s incentive. (being new here)

  3. Bub says:

    The picture IS a picture in a porn site. Agreed! this website, doesn’t seem true to it’s incentive. (being new here…also)

  4. 5starR3JECT says:

    Thanks. Sometimes this struggle feels like a black hole that swallows you up.
    As I struggle to see you for who you REALLY are, thank you for doing the same. Deception is easily believed.
    I’m tired of being a sucka.

  5. John Smith says:

    It’s true.
    Even porn gets unattractive over time.
    Right now for me I imagine, watching P would be less entertaining than subway surfers. :v I mean it though.
    It used to feel much more intense.
    You gradually build a tolerance to the quality, you end up watching 1080 and feeling slightly aroused.

  6. DAve says:

    In my experience it isn’t a comparison of a real woman or person to the porn.

    They are not the same thing so no you can not compete. It isn’t about objectifying women on screen or in real life and that is what this girl seems to want.

    That is not healthy sexual activity either. Western society has more than porn causing a problem for healthy sexual activity.

  7. Euphorios says:

    Thanks for writing this and telling the truth!

  8. Aahan says:

    Thank you for this. “Stay strong for us girls”. This was really endearing. Needed this motivation today.

  9. Serge says:

    I’m not sure how I feel about a woman leading that as inspiration, yes its a struggle but there more to that perfection seeker than porn. It’s all over who can have the sleesiest outfit biggest boobs or butt and expose as much as possible. I respect all people who respect themselves. I’d love anyone who would love me equally and would see a love interest as gold.

  10. YomMnOmry says:

    To the girl that posted this,
    Hey Ms, I hope my message finds you in good health.
    If it’s love that you’re after, then, first things first, premarital coitus is a proof that you’ll never get it. Let me ask a question: what is the purpose of your giving up the most sacred thing you have (i.e. your body) like this? If he loves you, then he won’t pursue physical pleasure with you, until he asks your hand for marriage, you say yes, and you both are married. This is what distinguishes us from animals, and, more importantly, this is what assures that he’s marrying you for YOU, not for your body—there are many bodies out there, but only one you.
    Thank you very much.

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