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Zero F giving , confidence improvement

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by lion188, Jun 3, 2018.

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  1. lion188

    lion188 Fapstronaut

    Hi,
    I just want share with you my improvement, is not a big but is matter for me ,
    i think nofap has contributed for this small success, i become more confident than before , i become enjoying little things , even if i have difficult moment in my life , I always had that self control here some facts for been more confident , and stop been like '' people pleaser '' and stop overthinking about what the others thinks about you:
    • People don't know your story ( life )
    • No one is better than the other, we have our weakness and strength's points
    • People judge quickly because is self instinct act
    • free yourself , and don't care about the other , is only question of time , is a short term process
    I will add some other tips , if i remember other one
    Cheers
     
  2. Can you mention exact detailed examples from your life when your confidence improved?
     
  3. lion188

    lion188 Fapstronaut

    • Like been in public places without getting anxious
    • You don't become nervous when you are near a stranger
    • I started to talk clearly and loudly without any problem
    • I started ignore people's sight when i do something
    • I can easily interact with people in middle of a talk
    • When i make a mistake and someone criticize me , i stay calm and not overthinking about what should done to avoid from happening
    • I become to wear clothes , that i haven't wear it before
    • I can keep eye contact with someone during a talk
    • I started accept the failure and staying optimist an keep thinking foward
    • I started to help people indeed, usually i was very shy to help people
    • I started to find word faster when i talk with someone
    And many other , i probably forget to mention
    Cheers
     
  4. Great man. And what? You are only in 74 days. All you have to do is keep the streak till you find GF then switch to normal mode.

    Also use this new found energy in a ways that benefit you.
     
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