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Thank you Dhalia a lot for this posting, a female point of view is very appreciated. What you say about it, fits my personal bias too, as far as we its about analsex as a preference. So transposed to porn its finally not much more then the try-out to visualize for each male (alpha or not) something he rarely gets: full female submission?

 

With my porn addiction I was (still am really) at the point where I don’t like watching porn unless it has anal.

I think anal (and many other things) between two CONSENTING adults is fine.

The problem with porn is it makes all sorts of actions look like a necessity to have a good relationship with a woman. Don’t NEED to have oral or anal sex in a relationship.

But you get sad situations where a self centered sex crazed guy constantly insists on acts he sees in porn be performed by his partner whether it’s consensual or not.

I knew a gal in the Navy who told me her husband was always trying to force her to do anal and she didn’t like it. Don’t know if the husband was a porn addict or not but I can see porn leading to a man trying to force his wants onto another.

 

I think the man rarely gets from what I hear from friends. I like it. Just because the man likes it. The strength of the man let’s me want to devote and surrender as deep as needed to meet his masculinity.

 

I know. It shouldnt

 

I can agree with most of these, but I don´t with "the parts". There are no "inappropriate parts" of the body to me
and I see no harm in using the whole body for pleasure during consensual sex.
Lama Tsongkhapa may do (or not) as he prefers, and I´ll do it my way.
As far as I remember the Buddha also stated something like:
don´t just believe, think for yourself.

PS: Can you please stop to repeat the same text all over the forum, like a mantra? Thank you.

 

I dont think the fascination for anal is a result of an opressed homosexual interests in other man - i mean guys have a mouth too, so when i want to kiss a girl, why then not a man, following such a logic? No, it isnt the prostata neither, since you can easily lust for anal without any wish to be at the receiving end, nor do you even want your partner to enjoy it - as we figured out above (the dark side of anal. painal etc as a fetish).

 

Unfortunately there can be a progression to more novel and unpleasant material.