would like to start a reboot

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Hello guys,
I'm 25 and for the last few years i'm not completely satisfied with my sexual life.
My problems are mostly with myself, and when I had a girlfriend most of the time we had fine intercourse.

So why am I here?
first of all,
Because I don't have erection all day long. When I was younger I use to have tons of "random erection" and now I just have the "morning wood" and that's it. It means I only have erection when I masturbate (not all the time, I'll write about it in a moment), and when I have some activity with women.

Second, it's because everytime i'm with a new woman (and also sometimes when I was with my ex-GF) I had a PE. Sometimes after 2 minutes, sometimes after 1 minute, sometimes after 20 seconds. (sometimes I didn't have it at all and last 5-10 minutes).
When it used to happen, it could affected me for few days, and even when I was alone. I mean, I had PE while I was masturbating.
also, with some women, I didn't have strong erection for most of the activity, I mean, it was hard and very quickly went soft, than hard again, that soft again.

now few things I would like to mention:
- about a 1-2 years ago I released I watching to much Porn. I mean, Not 3-4 times a day, but I did it every time I masturbated.
Since than I tried to do it less and less, but I still feel like I need porn from time to time (I would say 1-3 times a week). In addition, I became kinda addicted to video chat sites. I could spend 3 hours just looking for a woman and when I finally found one I usually couldn't function. I guess the excitement of someone watching me made me nervous.

- It the last month I felt like my erection is not strong at all, even when I masturbate (I didn't had sex for the last month). I couldn't point the reason, and it felt bad. I guess it might have connection to the web chat experience.


I week ago i decided to start a NoFap challenge. I had read about this experience and understood I could "reset my brain". Today I entered this site, read more about it, and I decided I would try the "hard mode" ,PMO, for a month.


Now guys I need your help,
I do it mostly to get better sex life. It's been few month since me and my ex GF been together and I feel like I'm having confidence issues when i'm trying making a move with other women since I'm afraid I won't be good sexually.
following your expirience,

I would point you the issues I would like to improve during this month -
- get back my random erections I had when I was younger
- get stronger erections during intercourse and masturbation
- kill completely the PE problem

Do you think I'm making the right decision here, or am I trying to fix my problems in a wrong way?


Thank you for your time.


p.s.
I would like to apologize.
I don't speak English as native language, but I hope my text was clear enough.

 

I started this experience to literally "reset my brain", but now it sounds like something completly different. You guys actually don't fap, at all, ever. I mean, it sounds like its good for you guys but I need to think about it to make sure this is something I want to do. i DEFINITELY want to stop P for ever.

I was never addicted to any of those, but I always feel I can be better. I mean, I could fap one a day or two and do P every 2-3 days. Now I want to do - porn and M whenever I'd like to. I mean, it's sounds pretty normal, most of the people do it, could they all be so wrong?

 

I don't know if I'm addicted to M or not, but the last 2-3 days were really difficult.
I feel like I need it, but I don't have erection at all. I mean, not even in the morning. We're talking about Italian spaghetti here. I also feel that if I'm gonna fap it won't help, I mean, it feels right now like even if I do it I wont get hard. It's becoming kinda depressing and it's only day 8.