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Women don't even turn me on anymore?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by 31shotscrazy, Nov 28, 2017.

  1. 31shotscrazy

    31shotscrazy Fapstronaut

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    So I'm 16 and around a year or two ago when i looked at women (you know the parts) I used to get uncontrollable urges and get so turned on by the look of them, but ever since i started using porn habitually and compulsively - I now look at a women (not objectification) and think yeah whatever she is sexy but I don't get an erection like before nor do I get horny and can't stop looking at them before.

    The only way I could reach even a fraction of that "high" or "horniness" is by going to the hardcore stuff. It's like i don't watch because of libido, it's because it's something i have become accustomed to.

    I'm on day 24 and I'm hoping nofap will make me sensitised to real women and get those excited urges when i see a thicc gyal (sorry if it seems I'm objectifying but still).

    Insight?
     
  2. Yes. This is all because pornography desensitized your brain and conditioned you to being aroused only to what you see on screen. I've gone through it.

    When you stop viewing pornography you'll go back to normal and find it easy to become aroused by real women who don't look like models or pornography stars. The media and pornography both are the leading cause for why we objectify people and hold high standards for what we think is beautiful or "sexy".

    It takes time though to heal your brain. Don't be discouraged or be put off by withdrawal symptoms either, you'll probably feel worse before you feel better. Learn to live a healthy lifestyle and good luck healing!
     
  3. 31shotscrazy

    31shotscrazy Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much man!! Helpful
     
  4. I'm a woman, but your welcome xD :D
     
  5. Just

    Just Fapstronaut

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    So glad a woman replied to this. There is no reason for objectification of gender. We are all here. Take what you are regaining a notice the ability to simply communicate. The world will be a much better place when we all learn to just be. I wish you well young man. You have a lot to learn :)
     
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  6. TheLoneDanger

    TheLoneDanger Fapstronaut

    You should read the yourbrainonporn website. It explains how all of this happens.
     
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  7. 31shotscrazy

    31shotscrazy Fapstronaut

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    Oh thanks girl!
     
  8. Dxmar

    Dxmar New Fapstronaut

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    So, any updates? Are you cured with those wild urges back?
     

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