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Women Destroy the Lives of Real Men

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by DannyCool, Jul 28, 2015.

Do Women Destroy the Lives of Real Men

  1. Yes

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  2. No

    77.3%
  3. Do Men Destroy the Lives of Real Women

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  1. doctor_warren

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    Congratulations, you are free from porn. I imagine that sounds a little stupid to you, as you don't remember very well what it's like to be shackled with PMO. Have a wonderful life

    Before you go though, how do you get your counter to say "since I last fucked myself"? That's funny
     
  2. You're still really valuable here. I get what you're saying, though. If it's time to go, it's time to go. Your presence here is definitely unique (in the positive sense). I love your bluntness and sometimes I feel we need more of that. I love being around others who do not beat around the bush, because it's good sign that you're not fake, and who wants to be around fake people?

    I tend to have a bit of a "takes no bullshit" attitude as well, and sometimes people can take it the wrong way, but at least we'll always be honest with people, and wont sugar coat things. I truly believe that this is the best way to help people. Tough love is the best kind of love. It is what helps people to go beyond their own limits.

    I'd love for you to stay, but at the same time totally understand that you probably feel that your mission here is done. Just even the fact that you've gone so many days without PMO is an encouraging presence enough for the rest of us. You're at a place where you're still helping people, but you just don't realise it any more, because you've gone so far down your reboot.
     
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  3. axy_david

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    I think she's really pissed at the whole community for being some crying brats every-time they relapse and stuff. Of course, me being weird does not help at all. I think she should definitely go on towards the next chapter of her life, it will be a better one.
     
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  4. @axy_david and others I apologize for being particularly cold today, my emotionally abusive and depressive grandmother had a vicious episode and violently threatened to kick us out my brother and me crying and stuff and knowing that we're in the middle of nowhere in France with the closest train station 20km away, and that I still have 2 and a half weeks of work at the factory where I absolutely despise my job, did NOT put me in a kind and light-hearted mood. I regret acting this salty.
     
  5. axy_david

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    Don't worry about me, be as cold and salty with me as you wish, I don't really mind it that much. I'm sorry to hear about your grandma, I bet you're in a tough situation. I hope that you'll be able to find a more comfortable place that doesn't include your grandma. I'll be praying for you.
     
  6. climberjunkie

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    Amen brother become celibate with me, the best thing to do is only see women as your sisters otherwise they are like succubus. Brother I support you if you ever need someone to talk to message me
     
  7. I have also chosen celibacy but that's not equal to saying that women destroy the lives of men!
     
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  8. Congrelous

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  9. @DannyCool

    I am sorry for your situation.

    I am realizing with the whole reboot is about setting the lines (limits and boundaries) and sticking to them...

    1. There is nothing like a real man. (girls are speaking about real men all the time when being abusive...)

    2. There is nothing like a real woman either.

    3. Every person can be amazing under proper guidance or they can be your biggest nightmare with the wrong mindset.

    4. If you go back to the origin of the problem and fix it there, you may be able to cure them...

    But to change the situation, you need to start to behave differently and persists with it.

    5. If you deal with women always set the situation so that it fits your needs.

    Don't go all the way to please them...
     
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  10. Temujin

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    I read more of your posts and it does sound like you are in an irritating situation. I would also be annoyed by that.

    However Non-Violent Communication has been used in numerous war-zones and prisons. One study showed that in combination with mindfulness it reduced key violence indicators in a medium security prison by 90% over a three year period and by 50% in a high security prison over a three year period.

    NVC has experienced a 'trial by fire' in very difficult situations. I understand its name causes you to be sceptical and I understand that, especially if you are in a difficult situation. But I have found it to be incredibly effective in my own life.
     
  11. Ryan Veitch

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    Thanks for that. I had had an annoying encounter with him a few days back and I was still annoyed with him when I put up those posts. I do believe that NVC is effective.
     
  12. climberjunkie

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    to a certain extent, there are some women who have high high expectations and that leads men to depression or anxiety... theres much psycology behind it, not saying women are bad just saying, there are many unhealthy relationships and divorces.. due to their "high expectations" that was super materialistic. Most men choose jobs they dont even like because of them.
     
  13. axy_david

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    Why the rolling eyes?
     
  14. himmelstoss

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    And still they're not good enough. They just put more and more of their lives into jobs they hate while the HR hags laugh at them behind their backs. Before the ink on Mark Zuckerberg's marriage license had dried the media was already gushing about how rich his new wife would be if she divorced him. Women's "fulfillment" depends on men bouncing from one failed relationship to another, growing increasingly confused and angry, and never figuring out what they're doing wrong.
     
  15. climberjunkie

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    its almost like a competitive game that's turned into a maze. Well said though :)
     
  16. Haggis

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    That's an over-generalization to me. Sure there are plenty of women who are just in it for the money, but there are plenty of men who are just in it for the money, the sex, the status. They could give two shits about their spouse.

    It goes both ways, let's keep that in mind.
     
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  17. himmelstoss

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    When we do it everyone knows who the bad guy is.
     
  18. Haggis

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    Well, sure. But I doubt many are sitting back praising the gold-digging wife or the scumbag husband.
     
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