Woman Benefits for doing NoFap?

I am happy being accused of ignorance, but can someone please explain what benefit a woman gets from doing Nofap? All the negative aspects ive heard about so far are all concerning men. PIED, ED, DE... nothing of those things is happening in a woman, is it?

And are woman developing "dick size expectations" from porn and cant hook up with normal guys anymore after watching it? They can't even see what kind of package the guy has until they are in the bed already. And even then, i would take a safe guess that if the woman actually really likes the guy, she will still give it shot, because he might still make it beautiful for both of them.

And in regards to the more "assertive dominant man" in porn, i am sure that the majority of guys out there are more then willing to fulfil that role, so there is not really a loss there either.

It just doesnt make sense to me that if a woman wants the feel good with O, she actively choses not to, even though her body doesnt really punish her with any repercussions like it does with guys :S

Now then. Let the beating begin.
Be gentle please. Or not

 

Thanks for the reply Fleurette, i wish i had more women like you for some more insight.
Hearing this from a woman is very valuable to me.

And i am going to say this, because i dont want you to get the wrong impression of me. I DO see woman as sort of an "Object" when i have any kind of sexual relationship with them. But i have to. I must do that for the sake of both of us. We need to keep the mutual attraction going in a relationship and for a guy this will always physical attraction first. Porn just overexaggetated the living hell out of it and makes women who are already beautiful feel insecure. That is just fkn terrible.
I've been with a gorgeous woman and even she had body issues. And that was just from social media. According to her, she never watched porn. And since i was with her, i believe her. She was a very sexually healthy girl.

As for you, do you notice a difference now? Do you feel like you can become more easily aroused after 50 days?
That girl i met didnt have sex before she turned 19 and she strongly believed that, to get pleasure, that is a guy's/man's job. I don't want to argue about this but here is the kicker... and the reason why i am writing this. She was increadibly sensitive. For almost any kind of touch. And she was able to have several orgasms during intercouse as well, and we weren't even a match, physically, because she was normal, and i am a bit on the thinner side with my dick.
Now that you mentioned that, i start to believe that if you don't touch yourself as a woman at all, that area is probably going to become more sensible, probably not like it was the case with her, but probably much much better. She didnt touch herself at all. And i dont know if she ever will. But by doing so, she gets rewarded tremendously the second she is with any guy. I am super curious if a woman can improve in that area as well. Just for herself. Not for any man. Only because ehe knows she can increase her own pleasure due to being very dedicated. It really would be the female equivalent to a man who is doing NoFap.
I am really fascinated and excited as i write this.

And for Sex and having a connection needed for Sex...
To me, Sex is and always will be Fire and Water.

There is intimate sex with a lot of kissing, hugging, cuddling, eye contact, slow stroking and compliments.
And then there is the rough, raw, "pornstyle"- sex where the man mostly just "takes" the woman, which can be really really hot, arousing and pleasurable for both.

I dont know about other man, and frankly i don't fukin care anymore. But i find a girl, she must be up for both of that.
I want the connection. It feels fucking beautiful. But i also need to "just take her" when i feel like it.
Thats why i try to have a conversation first, so i can find out what her limits are, so i can gently dance around, and yes, maybe sometimes push them.

For a girl/woman who is 100% comfortable with the guy, she is more likely to feel more comfortable, even if the guy is more dominant and assertive.
It feels to me like if she knows she can be vulnerable to him, and give herself to him, while he isn't abusing that, in fact rewards both of them for it...
That is where both men and women want to be in the bedroom.

And if she knows that when they enter the bedroom, its like an amazing game of roulette...With a guy who can and will do both, she never really knows what she will get... And to me, that brings a lot of excitement into a relationship...

"Maybe we will cuddle all night and he will kiss me everywhere and go down on me gently, make me feel beautiful and hold me in his arms until i fall asleep" - OR
"Maybe he will rip my pants off and just starts going!"

As a man, this shit excites me. Her not knowing what is going to happen. In a very positive, good way.

This "Yin-Yang" or "Fire-Water" balance... just feels the best way to describe it.​

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I like you. You are smarter then me : )
I had to look up "hedonism" and "preludes" because i have no fkn clue what it means :S

I would have never thought that a woman can experience similar psychological effects as men do. I always thought woman value a connecion to a man, especially men who know what they want in life and have a strong and reliable character.
Do you think Woman can fully recover from this, just like certain men do? Are woman more or less prone to a relapse?
It makes me sad how many people on this forum are apparentely "lost" in porn or at least highly damaged due to it, myself included.
But i can feel everything getting better after 1 month no Porn and 5 days without pmo.
Porn really is fkn poison.

 

Haha, there were any plots in porn???

 

For the sake of this thread, lets leave any kind of personal disorder out of this.
I am not really interested in comments about narcissists, sociopaths or even psychopaths.
They don't have the same kind of emotions like a regular person has and almost all their relationships are build fully on their own benefits only.
They don't give a flying fuck about their partner, often even try to drain them and abuse them mentallly and sometimes physically as well.
They often naturally prey on people who have a weak mind and are easier to manipulate. They often leave after the other person is mentally destroyed.

Lets assume the people on here are normal and actually care for their current partner or future partner.

They fascinate me because i believe, in a way, ignorance can be bliss.
But they will never experience how it feels to actually "make love" with someone you truly have a connection with.
They are very capable of faking this kind of feeling towards the other person though.
I've met one. Got out while i still could. Thank fkn christ.

That is why it is SO important to work on ourselves. The stronger our mind becomes, the less prone we are to fall victim to someone like that.
This goes for woman especially, i think they are more vulnerable to it then men are. Not saying that men aren't.

 

Sorry. I get easily triggered when someone is mentioning them in what i (falsely) assume to be a reply to my post.

Mea Culpa.

 

I have seen that on a woman who never watched any porn. She was very susceptible to any for of touch, anywhere on here body. There were areas (not counting the neck, boobies or pussy) where that was more prominent, but overall, she probably was similar to you now. And for a guy... this is fkn awesome. A woman who is so susceptible to touch makes every man feel even more of a man. FAKING AWESOME!
And to think about that this is trainable, that shit makes it even more awesome.

And i think there is a HUGE difference between attraction and arousal. A hot chick or guy can easily arouse us. But that doesn't mean we are also attracted to that person. For you to have sex, i would guess you were aroused, but you weren't necessarely attracted or had a connection with that person. It was probably based on your overall "hornyness" and how good the person was looking, physically.

And with the "baggage", you were talking about that a lot of people walk around with, i believe you are right. I actually believe that most people have baggage they carry around with them. Those people often make their own happiness depending on someone elses happiness, which is a wrong mindset in my opinion, but i don't want to discuss that in this thread.
It is a long journey to work on ourselves and drop all of that, some people don't care and some give up because it can be really hard to deal with, even though it is so fucking rewarding.
Neither of them will experience how beautiful life can be once you are getting rid of it.
Life can be so beautiful. We just have to want it.

 

Not true actually. Both genders need to feel desired physically. It just makes us feel good if our partner tells us what specifically he or she likes about us.
Other than that, it depends on the man, but i personally need to be valued and taken seriously on a character and personal level to build up an emotional connection now.
When i was younger, i could easily fall in love with a woman purely based on her looks. But that shit is over now(thank god!), and while women still do arouse me physically to the point i would want to have sex with them, if they don't have a character to back it up, i will never be emotionally involved.
It's just like you said... I could have this kind of sex with a girl/woman, but that would be purely physical and nowhere near of what i know how beautiful sex can be with someone i have a connection with.

Now, having sex with someone you really are highly physically attracted to AND have a connection with... Z-IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIING!
Best. Sex. On. This. Planet.
Probably one of the best things to do on this Planet at all. Not even kidding.

 

How do you know?
I mean, you are probably right. (And i say "probably" because i am very humble )
But you never met me and have no clue about me.

I am fascinated.

You females really are fascinating creatures.
And let's just assume that you are a female. I am fully aware that i am on the internet and that there is no way of actually knowing what kind of gender you have.

But i prefer to believe and just go first, and complain later.
Life is boring otherwise anyway, and nobody would do any fun and silly stuff