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Will sex with my GF destroy my reboot?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Nofper1999, Feb 10, 2017.

  1. Feb 10, 2017 #1
    Nofper1999

    Nofper1999 Fapstronaut

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    Hello I'm 17 years old, watching porn since the age of 12. I have Premature Ejaculation (I last only a few seconds) and never had sex with my GF which I'm in a relationship for almost 3 years. I'm now on 74th day of No PMO but nothing is gone.. You may ask me "how do you know that? ". I know that because every time we kiss and she approaches my pubic area with her hands I have that same feeling of extra sensitivity like before (BTW I don't let her hand job me because within some seconds it will explode). I never told her about the PMO thing.

    Now I want to ask something. I was thinking about starting the rewiring but in my occasion it's a lot different than the guys with ED because If I penetrate into her, I will ejaculate immediately, so I was thinking about telling her to hand job me first so I cum and become less sensitive and then try to have sex and manage to last 1-2 minutes inside her. (Well here is a problem that I may cum by just putting the condom on. )

    Now I want to ask if it's the right time for a "PEer" to start rewiring from only 75 days with this way that I described before, or will it harm my rebooting process and make the time of healing longer? Please don't tell me that I will be more vulnerable to masturbate because I think that is not gonna happen because I think I can control myself.
     
    Nofper1999, Feb 10, 2017
    Nofper1999, Feb 10, 2017
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  2. Feb 13, 2017 #2
    DonGiovanni

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    First of all, regarding sex, there are creams that can desensitize your penis, making you feel less = last longer. Be careful with wanking one out quickly just so the next one can last longer, it further enforces your pleasure to orgasm ratio. You're going to have to tackle this as a 2 issue situation and research the PE issue deeply, apart from NOFAP. There are medical explanations and techniques, but most will involve touching your penis and having sex and that screws with this program. Maybe you should wait a little longer instead of risking it, and you should NOT ever support any sort of quick ejaculation. Never let it be your choice, always work to prolong it. Battling PE is a tough struggle when you're a porn addict, because of the performance anxiety related to this addiction, and the shame it brings.

    You're 17???? and you're here? Damn I wish I would've found a resource like this when I was 17. I'm 33. Wanna know what it's like after 23 years of porn addiction without rebooting?

    IT FUCKING SUCKS. I wish you best of luck to you, and I'm amazed and quite inspired by you're clarity with the subject and your concerns and your maturity in dealing with this. You are lightyears ahead of where I was standing at 17.
     
    DonGiovanni, Feb 13, 2017
    DonGiovanni, Feb 13, 2017
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