Will I stop being horny one day?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Risitas67, May 10, 2019.

  1. Risitas67

    Risitas67 Fapstronaut

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    Hello

    Today I reseted (relapse without porn) after 12 days of NoFap. I was so f*****g horny the last 2-3 days. Like just seeing my genitals would make me horny.
    Will it calm down after some months of NoFap? Should I just masturbate every 3-4 days without porn ?

    Thanks
     
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  2. ClickClickBoom

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    The feeling comes and goes, the more you think about it the worst it will be. Its important that you keep yourself busy and to diverge from porn and masturbating in general.
    And yes you can do it

    Best wishes,
     
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  3. Freddiefox

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    That time is hard because the urges are so strong as your mind fights to get what you used to feed it. At the same time your sensitivity is coming back. But, you can get through this stage.
     
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  4. Ronila

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    If you are trying to stop exploitation of pornography to get a high, then you should not use porn to feel pleasure.
    You are trying to deprive your body of sexual activity and it fights back. Deprivation could be useful but it is not recommended until there is a specific goal, like recovering libido and should only be temporary.

    Masturbation is not a problematic behavior, abuse of masturbation to feel a high is a problem. If you are not exploiting masturbation to feel a prolonged high then it is completely normal.

    As I said before, issue is not with porn or masturbation, issue is with using those activities to feel a high.
     
  5. you are horny because you want to be. Ask yourself when you are like that, do you really like it? For me I just stare into the air with all my force and then it will be gone
     
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  6. Thilo

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    Nice trick I will try that!
     
  7. phwrancesco

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  8. hitnmis

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    Are you really horny or is it habit?
     
  9. Ronila

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    Actually you are horny because your body is programmed to be, there is minimal control involved, and your hormones is determined by chemistry not your thoughts.

    You can however train your body to adjust its reactions, but this is significant time consuming task and you will never really have control over arousal, best you can do in my opinion is make some activities less arousing.

    Arousal is part of reward mechanism, it feels great for this reason
     
  10. TheBahamas

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    Yes. urges come and go. take cold showers to get rid of it
     
  11. Ronila

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    Urges are not random, they are based on chemistry. People are dynamic things, our mood, self image, confidence, focus and pretty much everything else constantly changes. So does our hormonal and myriad of other biological markers.
    It is a miracle that our brains make all this dynamic change seamless and undetectable to us if we are not looking, but these changes affect us in major ways.

    Take calm and collected child and give him/her allot of sugar and this child will become much more active. Tell child they are grounded and they become lethargic and so on. We are bags of chemicals, what you eat and what you experience shapes what you feel and want allot more than many realize.
     
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  12. arkad1

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    You'll stop being horny when you'll be 90 years old...
     
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  13. Tarfk

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    Hey pal, don't forget to take a very cold shower when you feel the urge. They will go away. But remember, no pain no gain, so the cold shower is not pleasant haha.
     
  14. TheBahamas

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    I appreciate your insight
     
  15. Lot Yanisin

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    Dude, I'm going through it now!

    I was almost a month clean. Relapse... now have been through another 4 days I believe clean.

    But holy hell... I'm having all of these thoughts racing through my head... these urges to want to hook up
    with a prostitute (I seem them in my city I do business)... I even had a quick thought and I walked away...
    (she wasn't 18 and I mentally slapped my own face) after seeing her in a bent position and felt disgusted.

    A woman at my work office seemed concerned with how I looked...as if I was sad...in deep thought... (I was)... I called it 'brooding' just to sound like a hot sensitive guy. She put her hand on my shoulder a few times...

    and this mix of "let's go somewhere real quick and _ _ _ _" and "I'm going to cry because of your touch and the feeling of feminine energy/compassion" came by.

    I've been telling myself aloud "C'mon, dammit!" and "stop! Jesus Christ!" I can only find so much distraction it feel like... I just have this urge to hunt for women... I'll have to settle for the misses...maybe I'll try and charm her tonight...see if it leads to somewhere naturally...
     

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