Will delayed ejaculation/numbness go away if i just have sex?

While you have to quit porn, i would suggest you shouldn't M either, and what i do as well, is using coconut oil.
to make is smooth and relaxed again. I am already seeing improvements in sensibility though. I can masturbate super slow with almost 0 pressure for a bit and my erection stays up, and we are talking 0 arousal. No porn and next to no imagination in my head, nothing.

 

Do you ejaculate when you masturbate?

 

No. The energy i get from never doing an orgasm actively on my own is WAY to precious. I dont want to lose that at all, i see so many benefits.

 

How frequently do you edge then? Last week I experimented with this. For a week I was edging every day in the morning, first thing after waking up. Every session lasted about 30 minutes. I never ejaculated in the end. However the way I was doing the edging was not like stop and start method, it was more like staying close to PONR and maintaining that sensation without crossing the line. However, after maybe 5 days of doing this, I was experiencing more difficulty maintaining the erection and I don't really feel like a sexual energy building up over the days. So I am curious as to what is your approach, like how often do you do it, for how long you do each session, and if there is any specific technique that you use.

 

I think what you are doing might put too much sensation on the nerves for a continious amount of time. The dick gets more sensible when you are about, while and after you had your orgasm and ejaculated.

I personally try to stay away from edging and just masturbate super slowly with the least amount of pressure i can do while keeping it up.
Its probably also better not to do it every day, because the dick gets more sensible to touch again.

I will have to O at some point if i can't find a woman soon, even though i will never watch porn again. My base-hornyness drives me up the walls, even when i try to fill my whole day with something. I am at the point where when i see a beautiful girl and i talk to her, all i want to do is something i cant even say in public. But i know its unhealthy. I am going to release that pressure soon, i can do that without porn, deathgrip and with little to no imagination. I know i have to if i cant think straight anymore in my everyday life. Fk dat, i have other shit to do.

 

I wouldnt recommend M for anyone who is not 100% sure they wont turn to porn.
I know i won't, but my body is so fkn horny that i cant even think straight anymore the second when i am alone.

The best way would probably just to apply the coconut oit without any thoughts.
But as i stated if nobody is touching my D at all after around two weeks of nofap or regular sex, i am going up the fucking walls.

The sensitivity is noticeably better now then it was when i started to NoFap. But i started NoFap and directly also applied the coconut oil. So i cant really tell what exactly made the difference there. Maybe its the part of not touching my D for M, maybe its that combined with the oil.

But i know i will probably NEVER go back to M with actual pressure, and will probably keep applying coconut oil for a long time.

Porn is out of the window, probably forever.

 

@ReclaimedLife is your penis circumcised that you are using coconut oil? Is it really working to soften the skin on both the glans and inner foreskin on shaft?

 

I am circumcised, and i am using the oil mainly to get the sensitivity to a point where i want it. I dont want it to be too sensible, or the next time i have sex, i will only last 2-5min. I am going to prevent that.
I dont know if its the oil, but my dick got more sensitive over the last 20 days, but i was combining the coconut oil with no P and only super occasionally M w/o O with light touch only.

I would say it helps, but i dont have any proof. The better higher sensibility is a fact though.

 

Then I will also start using it to see if my sensitivity starts getting better and I will posy my progress on here.

Thanks buddie!