Wife feeling shameful she isn't enough

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by MrJ_aka Mr, Mar 22, 2019.

  1. MrJ_aka Mr

    MrJ_aka Mr New Fapstronaut

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    I mean, what's the point anyway? What, sit on a toilet and bang out one just to make real sex with my wife impossible for me to feel and less enjoyable for both of us and to make her feel she isn't enough to satisfy me. DONE! I'm over it! I would have been over it a long time ago if I'd known what kind of affects would creep in during my mid-life. Ended PMO, porn, or anything related to sex unless wife is involved on Monday March 18, 2019. She and I both abstinent from any stimulation for thirty days. I am so looking forward to and praying that a 30day reboot will be enough!!
     
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  2. Freddiefox

    Freddiefox Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the community. Good motivation and goals. Best wishes to both you and your wife.
     
  3. MrJ_aka Mr

    MrJ_aka Mr New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the kind words.. For me, its fingers crossed on the results not the journey. Others in this community are my motivation, hopefully my words and commitment can motivate someone else..
     
  4. NF4L

    NF4L Fapstronaut

    You may also find some good support and recovery through meetings for sex addicts in your area. SA matches your goals, but there are other like SAA, SLAA, and probably some I am missing. Getting out and sharing your story and your feelings helps break the secrecy, lies, and shame around your addiction.
     

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