Why should kids my age date, especially during their reboot?

Lol facts, most kids just date to look cool and show off to their friends. Like what's the appeal in that? If I was going to date someone, which I may try out soon, imma make it a legitimate relationship. Not just bull. I'm 14 btw

 

Yo at least someone my age knows the truth. Most kids our age think PMO is a joke and normal. It's really not

 

Perhaps but it's not going to. Big money is made in porn. Too bad. NoFap will begin to gain mass traction in the 2020s imo.

 

Ahhh youth You have a good mentality. I think it's great that you continue to work on yourself for now while in reboot and not date. I do want to say, there is some merits in dating as a teen - you get to understand what sort of personalities you like being with and what genuinely attracts you as a person. Saying that though, it's no good dating if the spectre of porn and PMO is clinging onto you (it would ruin any potentially good relationship you get into). So take your time but focus on dealing with PMO.

 

You guys have the right mindset because society has brainwashed you to think otherwise

 

I agree. The vast majority of teens are too immature to form a lasting relationship with someone. Everything has been handed to them and they haven't learned how to provide for themselves or others yet. I'm 18 and I don't think I'm quite ready for a gf. Although nofap has allowed me to mature, I still have plenty of work left before I can accept that responsibility. I still have to recover from years of excessive internet, video game, and porn use. I had no drive or motivation because I lived my life in front of a computer screen. Because of nofap, I can now prepare myself for the future.

It's uncommon for anybody to form lasting relationships during high school. My grandparents got married young and stayed married for over 60 years before my grandfather died 2 years ago, but relationships like that are rare. My friend's parents got married right after high school. He was born a year later and his parents divorced when he was only 2. You could argue that forming relationships at a young age can teach you lessons for later on, but that's only if you choose to learn from them. Most young people will blame the other person for the failed relationship instead of learning from their own mistakes.

Because we're all on nofap, we're ahead of the game when it comes to maturity. PMO is an immature activity because it gives you instant gratification instead of long-term fulfillment. Those our age want instant gratification often at the expense of opportunity. If we do the mature thing and develop ourselves then we will be ready for relationships.