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Why not just embrace being pussy free?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Pussy Free and Proud, Nov 18, 2018.

  1. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Yep Yep
     
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  2. koe06f

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    What's a cuck?
     
  3. porn lingo for someone who's being cheated on (and likes it)

    I think all OP is saying is that you should avoid a pussy spell. Anyone familiar with the law of attraction?
     
  4. captainteemo

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    Perfect said
     
  5. icantbelieveit

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    Honestly when you stop giving a shit about women and putting them on a pedestal...you will suddenly find it way easier to talk with them and sleep with them. I wish I discovered it in my teen years but meh. All of this alt right stuff is just pure trash to me, just go out there, put yourself in uncomfortable situations and learn to just get over it and get over yourself. Ultimately no one cares, once you build confidence it's pretty smooth sailing. Honestly I think men in ONE SENSE (don't misquote me) have it easier than women which is: I often see guys with girls way out of their leagues, how? It's not money, these people usually just met eachother..so what is it? Just their confidence, their charm, they basically don't give a shit. On the other hand, due to PORN many guys, and certainly me tend to judge women almost entirely on their hotness, that was their entire worth to me.

    TLDR: Porn completely screws up our views on women, I am no feminist but stop looking at them as objects and just as fellow people (that sure you can sleep with) and you will be able to have way more relationships with women. Remove porn from your life.
     
  6. Is that a bad thing?
     
  7. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Is what a bad thing?
     
  8. I'm familiar with the law of attraction, but not sure what you mean by a pussy spell.

    Are you suggesting that he (or we) should avoid any obsession over not having success with women?
     
  9. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

    Is being a cuck a bad thing?
     
  10. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    You'll have to ask God that, for I am not the moral police...
     
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  11. PedroCalrissian

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    I think it might be good for you to go "pussy free". But their are many different hierarchies with many different goals. So to look at the world as hierarchy of mating can be harmful and deceiving. Maybe to stop viewing the world through this hierarchy can unchain you. And present a hole new world with different opportunities. Opportunities that you were blind to because you only saw the end goal of being chosen by a women. So instead of accepting your place at the bottom you should stop aimming to climb this hierarchy. If you let go of the ultimate goal to get laid, you know have a wide array of possibilities and the freedom to choose the life that is perfect for you. Find a new hierarchy because you must have some ideal. You must strive upward toward something.
     
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  12. Beautiful response. Why are we so hung up on approval and acceptance of others?

    Reminds me of what Dick N. Bolles wrote in "What Color is Your Parachute":

    What you choose to do with your life is between you and God. No one else gets a vote.
     
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  13. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    Dick N. Bolles? I've never read any of his Classics yet.
     
  14. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Amen
     
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  15. I can tell you exactly what’s motivating the guy who posted this. He’s an interracial porn addict and he’s trying to get others to relapse.
     
  16. TheBarbarian

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    Not everyone who does nofap is an incel. But I’m glad someone at least understands how natural selection works
     
  17. Ridley

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    False.

    Also, there's a vague tone of resentment in what you're saying. Just because you've personally had a difficult time dating doesn't mean that the world has changed for the worse and suddenly made it harder for white men to find a date. The world doesn't need to change, but your attitude does.

    Because I like having sex with women... Never give up. If you really believe you're not worth any woman's time, then I guess you're right, but I think I'm a pretty decent guy. I've had no problems dating women even though I'm white, so I really don't know what you mean by this "submissive role".

    God this post... Makes me cringe a little bit. Did you think you'd have a bunch of people on your side or something?
     
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  18. What if you don't want to sleep around?
     
  19. icantbelieveit

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    Then you just don't? What I said applies to both getting intimate with them, or making friends with them...or just not caring in general.
     
  20. Asgardian36

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    Rightly said, man! Couldn't have put it better myself!!! Keep it going!
     

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